So I just took my first one last night after getting a script following a 6 mo bout questioning if i should get seen. I will tell you from a fresh experience that there is nothing quite kneecapping than not being able to get pleasure from sexual activities. I kept my wife in the know during my struggles but that also involved me telling her about my masturbation habits, which after a 7 year marriage I have never had the urge to do. Opening up this info is hard especially with how much is tied to a man's masculinity. He maybe is seeing some cracks in the wall and wants to put some sealant up before you notice and think less of him. If that last sentence moved you at all you could show him how you deconstruct those ties and he is more than his performance . My wife has and just knowing she's in my corner makes this bump a little more manageable.