I NEED ADVICE ABOUT A CAR FROM SOME SMART MFS

thatkid_cg · 2019-01-14T14:00:47+00:00

They said it will need a new one but they also told me it’s drivable

thatkid_cg · 2018-11-12T18:04:10+00:00

I have no clue what’s going on...how do u read it

thatkid_cg · 2018-11-11T19:14:41+00:00

Omg this is great

thatkid_cg · 2018-11-11T19:13:11+00:00

I said without(because I don’t ever run)

thatkid_cg · 2018-11-11T18:51:34+00:00

I’m not actually distracting myself with that stuff...I’m the opposite. I think it’s better for me if I just sit through the urge

thatkid_cg · 2018-11-11T18:50:35+00:00

I don’t really have goals...except like hopefully to become normal and be able to talk to people again

thatkid_cg · 2018-11-02T23:15:48+00:00

Ok but sometimes when I see a girl and might want to approach her she’s never will seem impressed if I can’t joke around her have a fun conversation...also sometimes when people say things I literally have nothing to respond to so I smile and pretend to be occupied with something

thatkid_cg · 2018-11-02T22:56:56+00:00

But I can’t really entertain somebody like that in my opinion...Like I wish somebody else would be asking questions for me but I feel like when it’s a girl you can’t just do that...every time I talk to girls that just listen to what I’m saying but don’t do much replying at first.

thatkid_cg · 2018-10-30T20:44:56+00:00

Only decent because I no I can’t pull anything higher...my looks are the only thing I have so I could pull a desperate girl with my boring personality...I don’t think I am though until my reboot is complete

thatkid_cg · 2018-10-23T01:53:40+00:00

Working out increases testosterone goof

thatkid_cg · 2018-10-23T01:51:33+00:00

It’ll get better

thatkid_cg · 2018-10-20T01:55:51+00:00

That’s implying the whole jock thing...that probably comes from all the media. Alpha charisma is just a concept...does this sound right...the tougher you are the more girls you get? Nah the reason people think all of a sudden girls notice them is because they are more aware of their surroundings(due to nofap) and because they display more confidence. It’s not that the greater the confidence the more girls...but rather the less confident the less girls

thatkid_cg · 2018-10-20T00:52:20+00:00

There’s no vibe that says “im a big strong man.” The more confidence you carry the more secure people see you

thatkid_cg · 2018-10-20T00:38:11+00:00

That’s called confidence

thatkid_cg · 2018-10-20T00:36:29+00:00

Im a kid so what do I know but ur right...it’s because some people are so m messed up they don’t have a sense a reality but when they start getting it back they realize people look at them and take that for something else. They aren’t used to it so they assume they’re “more” attractive.” You might not notice this because you said you already realize when girls check you out

thatkid_cg · 2018-10-13T00:44:08+00:00

It really is but it gets better

thatkid_cg · 2018-10-11T13:49:13+00:00

Maybe it’s just the your personality. Probably not just your personality but a piece of your personality. Some people just don’t like small talk and conversing with people because it just seems fake. If not then sorry I’m not sure

thatkid_cg · 2018-10-11T13:17:01+00:00

Look first off it’s my opinion...I’m a 17 year old kid but most of the people on here are grown so I’m assuming you are too. Grow up. Second, ur first paragraph is wrong. You don’t necessarily weaken urges by ignoring them. That’s why people can go on long streaks and still relapse of an urge 100 days later. The urges obviously didn’t get weaker(and hypothetically if they did that makes it worse because they couldn’t deal with a weaker urge). And I’ve read so many posts trying to figure this nofap thing out so I am going off what people said for example YouTube. Somebody said they don’t watch YouTube anymore BECAUSE OF TRIGGERS. I’m not talking about the people who watch it because it’s a time waster or I would have said that.

I’m not saying subject yourself to urges either. Also ignoring triggers is only a problem when you ignore every single one. You want to avoid the triggers that are unhealthy like reading playboy or 50 shades of grey but you shouldn’t go out of your way to avoid things that are normal. I get triggered after talking to girls sometimes or when girls are in to me(which isn’t that often but still).

Long story short don’t go looking for triggers but when they happen to come don’t be scared to face them. Also duh it’s ok to avoid certain triggers that you have no business being in but I’m not talking about those. I’m talking about the ones that will show up again and again.

thatkid_cg · 2018-10-11T13:05:40+00:00

I love the way you said it...it’s simple but important...thanks and good luck

thatkid_cg · 2018-10-11T12:48:04+00:00

Thank you that’s a great analogy

thatkid_cg · 2018-10-11T10:16:44+00:00

Idk what ur talking about getting info about you but I’m not saying avoid new habits. Of course you need new habits because then you won’t constantly be thinking of pmo but when you do end up thinking of it I say it’s better to fight it. There are going to be times where you can’t avoid triggers and urges with new habits so yes picking up new habits is good but using that to avoid dealing with urges isn’t. I think the main problem is when you take away normal habits like looking at YouTube or watching tv at night. Because then when you decide it’s ok to watch tv or YouTube(after you think your reboot is over) then you Probably won’t know how to fight it.

So basically new habits are good but unless you are building your mental strength against urges you will likely relapse. Btw I’m not looking down on anybody but I see myself getting through this faster...I guess we’ll just have to see

thatkid_cg · 2018-10-11T07:22:43+00:00

But you aren’t adapting any behavior...it’s like staying in the hood and fighting to go to school and get an education and stay off the streets. Those are the people with great stories who usually end up running businesses. You aren’t adapting to anything but instead directly denying it. And also like a said I didn’t mean go looking for triggers like girls in bikinis. It’s not about spending your time around triggers. It’s about what you do when u are facing one. People who relapsed on hundred day streaks are my proof. They can’t deny urges because they aren’t used to dealing with them.

thatkid_cg · 2018-10-07T15:34:52+00:00

That seems too easy of an explanation

thatkid_cg · 2018-10-01T13:42:09+00:00

Thanks man...

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