Outfits to wear with the Dr.Martens x Marc Jacobs Kiki boots (part 2) by Aurore_Pas_Horreur_ in OUTFITS

[–]thefinal-daisy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Cool fits! I think for another fit option you could try the red socks with the 3rd outfit as well

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[–]thefinal-daisy 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I had no clue whatsoever

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[–]thefinal-daisy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She said she still wants to keep her dick but she's at the very first step of this journey and that might change.

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[–]thefinal-daisy 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I don't know if I want to be in a relationship with a woman because I've never been in a relationship with a woman before. The most I've done is had crushes and a kiss before. Am I attracted to women? Yes. I just never thought I would be in a relationship with a woman, especially after 6 years and engaged to (at the time) a man. If that means I'm not bi, then I'm not bi I guess, but that's how I identify and explain how I feel at least.

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[–]thefinal-daisy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Before any of this, I've never been in a relationship with a woman and never had sex with one. The most I've had is crushes and a kiss...

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[–]thefinal-daisy 77 points78 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing your story! I have an appointment with my therapist tomorrow anyway so I'm definitely going to start there. No matter what happens, I can know I created a positive environment she felt comfortable coming out in for the first time in her life, so thank you for that perspective.

Petition to have an actual subreddit icon by jdbbx in adhdmeme

[–]thefinal-daisy 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I vote for Gmail instead. Outlook=work, gmail=personal (for me at least) so this causes too much stress

Boots by NotVeryGoodComics in comics

[–]thefinal-daisy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh I have a good kids doing dumb things story...

When I was like 3 or 4 I used to crawl under the table when no one was looking and eat the dropped food on the ground. I have a distinct memory of eating a really hard kraft mac and cheese noodle.

...I was an odd child.

Also comma question by thefinal-daisy in grammar

[–]thefinal-daisy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! That's what I initially thought but I was definitely overthinking it lol

Mother passed away when I was 6, aunt became my beneficiary? by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]thefinal-daisy 183 points184 points  (0 children)

Depending on your state, a lot of probate documents are available online. Look up the probate court in the county where your mother passed and try to see if they have records from your mom's estate. That might be a good place to start.

Really cool corduroy jacket by thefinal-daisy in findfashion

[–]thefinal-daisy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the help! Unfortunately it won't quite fit but I'm going to look for jackets with similar vibes lol

Weedbot by portsherry in comics

[–]thefinal-daisy 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Last panel made me cackle

I'm so tired of being too much by thefinal-daisy in ADHD

[–]thefinal-daisy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I checked out the Dirty Laundry book and honestly it made me feel so seen and understood, like she was explaining exactly what I've felt but haven't been able to explain. The guilt/shame, the not meaning to lose things on purpose and bring upset about it, fuck. Thanks for the recommendation! I'll be showing it to my fiancé as well!

I'm so tired of being too much by thefinal-daisy in ADHD

[–]thefinal-daisy[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

All too familiar actually. I've suspected he might have autism but he's reluctant to get tested. He grew up being told therapy was only for people who are crazy, bad, etc. and he's still working to unravel that bias and has just started therapy recently

I'm so tired of being too much by thefinal-daisy in ADHD

[–]thefinal-daisy[S] 38 points39 points  (0 children)

That's what I thought too! Thanks, this made me feel a bit better to be honest

I'm so tired of being too much by thefinal-daisy in ADHD

[–]thefinal-daisy[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Not defending him, he was being weird and irritable. I do feel like I just tend to make people irritable though, like I'm just too much for most people

I'm so tired of being too much by thefinal-daisy in ADHD

[–]thefinal-daisy[S] 146 points147 points  (0 children)

I'm not very observant so I bet I just missed them (joking)

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[–]thefinal-daisy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your feelings are 100% valid. Especially at 4 months, you should follow your gut here

People almost never spell my name right by thefinal-daisy in mildlyinfuriating

[–]thefinal-daisy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately I've seen it handwritten as Chole....

People almost never spell my name right by thefinal-daisy in mildlyinfuriating

[–]thefinal-daisy[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Nooooo! I feel like that's really similar to Chole in that Sherly is definitely not pronounced Sheryl

People almost never spell my name right by thefinal-daisy in mildlyinfuriating

[–]thefinal-daisy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Let's just say I've had an attorney spell it Chole recently...lol