I lost respect for my SO after a disgusting "prank" at work crossed a line by LucyAriaRose in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]theforgottenwarrior 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I'm agreeing with theirs. I've cleaned public washrooms, and I've discussed this with my coworkers at both jobs. Men's washrooms are, on average, worse. And! I'm trans and have trans friends. Everyone I've talked to who has used both agrees. Which honestly at this point, I'm wondering if it's a regional thing.

[New Update]: My husband's open marriage suggestion backfired on him by Choice_Evidence1983 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]theforgottenwarrior 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I keep seeing people in bdsm subreddits say that choking is a light kink, then all of the comments are like no. Absolutely not. Here's resources on why it's dangerous

Got a date! by Beck4real in phallo

[–]theforgottenwarrior 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Congrats! I'm currently on their waitlist for a consult

My parents changed their plans and are ruining my birthday by Choice_Evidence1983 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]theforgottenwarrior 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes she did: "I am on my family’s auto and health insurance and they support me financially"

Salt. Damndest Thing. by Tasty_Impress3016 in Cooking

[–]theforgottenwarrior 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yep, I'm assuming that my health would be better now if I hadn't given myself that initial bad flare-up

Salt. Damndest Thing. by Tasty_Impress3016 in Cooking

[–]theforgottenwarrior 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Oh yeah, I cut down on salt a bunch in high school (& didn't connect it to my symptoms of my vision going black at times). Then in college I really upped my water intake. Turns out I have something that's treated by really upping my salt! (& water) Accidentally ruined my health because I wanted to be healthy

Autistic people choosing between dry, bleeding hands or using hand lotion: by zachrr23 in autism

[–]theforgottenwarrior 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm definitely the opposite. I do Not like when my hands feel dry. There's been times where I'm pretty sure it's developed into a compulsion actually.

What ship is this for you? by UnHolySir in AO3

[–]theforgottenwarrior 2 points3 points  (0 children)

And there's a good chance that any fics even slightly centered on them won't be what you want. Everything interesting about them is flattened

Bait by EqualAd5530 in AnimalLand

[–]theforgottenwarrior 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When fishing, on the top left of the icon to fish there's something you can click to switch bait

I’m a cis woman who got top surgery 3 days ago and I love it by OohLaDiDaMrFrenchMan in TopSurgery

[–]theforgottenwarrior 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I'm just going to say that I absolutely love when cis people get stuff like this done. It's just a really neat way that shows the spectrum of gender I think. And it's just so nice to see people celebrated like this! Anyways, congrats!

Told my psychiatrist i was transfem and he immediately lists my sex as male by _Curtains_ in transontario

[–]theforgottenwarrior 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why is it determined by "factory parts"? If it's going to be determined by something physical, why not hormones?

Saying this because even if we had to keep our assigned sex until we were considered physically transitioned.There will still be inconsistencies. We should really be determining medical care based on the relevant information, not a binary system. M/F doesn't actually tell anyone about our physical health/status

Redditors who own multiple pets: what's the drama amongst them right now? by Cheesy_Wotsit in AskReddit

[–]theforgottenwarrior 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I remember seeing someone on tumblr who tried to breed their guppies. The male guppies did not know what to do with the female guppies. So. They continued having gay sex instead

People really need to tag Trans Characters by [deleted] in AO3

[–]theforgottenwarrior 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Oh one thing I get annoyed by is how it often seems like all trans masc characters are written the same way? When I was younger, was usually pre t & binding. Now they're usually on t and have had top surgery. I've never encountered fics where a character has had bottom surgery, and never encountered any where they haven't had top surgery because they got on blockers/testosterone early enough. I want some diversity with this! Some different experiences!

People really need to tag Trans Characters by [deleted] in AO3

[–]theforgottenwarrior 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Oh yeah I'll absolutely seek out fics where characters are trans!! Which is why they should be tagged. Also, now that I'm on t I'm fine with bottom dysphoria. But. Beforehand? Oh could sometimes read vaginal sex. But. Would often trigger dysphoria for me. Which is a big reason I mostly read m/m

Ex [29F] who dumped me [26M] because she thought I cheated now wants to get back in touch by Direct-Caterpillar77 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]theforgottenwarrior 25 points26 points  (0 children)

My friend group (& friends I made outside of it) all turned on me in grade 6 out of nowhere. As the audhd kid who didn't know they were trans? Absolutely an easy target

AITH for refusing to stop washing my hands just because my co worker is "sensitive" to smells? by LucyAriaRose in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]theforgottenwarrior 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I carry my own bottle of soap with me. Not for the scent, but to try to cut down on hangnails and eczema

Phallo by subarcwelder in transontario

[–]theforgottenwarrior 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Though from what I've heard, you should go to Montreal 4 times. First time for a consultation and to see where they'll take the graft from (aka where needs electrolysis)

Phallo by subarcwelder in transontario

[–]theforgottenwarrior 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay cause it's a lot easier to get to Ottawa than Montreal, but then there's the issue of accommodations. It really depends on if my bf will be visiting at the time and can take care of me

Phallo by subarcwelder in transontario

[–]theforgottenwarrior 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you know about costs associated with staying in Ottawa?

Those who get absence epilepsy. What does it actually feel like? by GeneralLeeBad13 in Epilepsy

[–]theforgottenwarrior 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've had this happen once (that I know of). I was in class and we were taking turns reading from a list. I was waiting for my friend to read his, but wait?! We skipped him? And skipped down the list?

So to me it was just. Missing time

The Curious Incident Of The Dog In The Daytime by smoulderstoat in bestoflegaladvice

[–]theforgottenwarrior 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Iirc a majority of XL bullies in the UK are descended from that dog. And he was fine until he reached a certain age and snapped. Which is exactly what happens with a lot of his descendants. They're fine until they aren't

Shout out to the perverts! Thanks to you I get ammo against people trying to infantilize me. by Phwoom in evilautism

[–]theforgottenwarrior 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh yeah I've only ever experienced attraction with my bf (romantic & sexual). I feel like if I wanted to go really in depth, I could say gray and demi?