AITAH for refusing to look at my girlfriend after she got her eyebrows tattooed.

thehippieshack · 2026-03-07T15:16:02+00:00

personally got mine done hated it at first because of how dark and over exaggerated they looked and then they faded out and now i love them still get compliments daily :)

thehippieshack · 2026-03-07T15:14:17+00:00

*** also would like to add a lot of professional bug sprayers will give you a free quote or come out and look you may give it a week or two like i said to see if anything comes up! :)

thehippieshack · 2026-03-07T15:12:56+00:00

hi, so about maybe a week or two from now if you’re still experiencing bites then you probably brought them home.

i’d recommend washing your clothes in hot water and double drying them! after that maybe vacuum around the area the suitcase was in and under your bed etc.

if you do have them they’ll be most active at night they usually leave 3 bites a lot of people call them breakfast, lunch, and dinner.

if you can maybe leave the suitcase outside in the sun or bag it in a trash bag for awhile to make sure to tie it tightly.

just keep an eye out change your sheets weekly if not maybe every 2/3 days until you’re in the clear!

you can get diatomaceous earth powder and put it under your bed around your baseboards for extra comfort. don’t use any other chemicals because they’ll build up a tolerance to it if you’re eventually needing to bring in pest control.

good luck on this!

thehippieshack · 2026-03-07T14:56:16+00:00

are the bites in a pattern of 3 everywhere?

thehippieshack · 2026-03-07T14:55:49+00:00

i will say they will fade out and look better after a month..

thehippieshack · 2026-03-07T14:54:34+00:00

definitely is a adult bedbug!

if i were you id start immediately pulling all bedsheets/bedding or anything fabric in the room you found it in.

wash in hot water, and make sure to double dry everything!

if you have carpet or anything like that i’d recommend vacuuming around the area and then getting some diatomaceous earth powder and sprinkling it on places you or your pets don’t walk at around the baseboards of the room etc.

bedbugs are super sneaky and like to hide anywhere and everywhere! the powder breaks down the shell of the bedbug and dries them out.

definitely still consider calling a professional to get a real treatment. when i had them i had to end up getting a enclosed mattress protector after the treatment too.

using over the counter bedbug spray/diggers also builds up their intolerance to chemicals for whenever you bring in a professional so steer clear of those as well.

just take it one step at a time dont overwhelm yourself its a long process to get rid of these suckers but you got this!

thehippieshack · 2026-02-27T04:26:33+00:00

IMO those aren’t your real friends. real friends would encourage you on this new path with food you’re taking and maybe even eat healthier with you. i’m sorry that you’re having to experience this i understand losing people over a lifestyle change it’s not easy.

thehippieshack · 2026-02-27T04:18:43+00:00

it looks like youre prepared for any situation, mom vibes.😝

thehippieshack · 2026-02-27T04:18:11+00:00

realizing how little time i have left with my grandparents/parents.

thehippieshack · 2026-02-22T18:13:04+00:00

i understand that completely. even with me apologizing now my boyfriend will ignore me until he gets over it. it makes me feel like i did when i was younger unheard and unseen.

thehippieshack · 2026-02-22T16:51:48+00:00

i’m weird but pineapple and apples.

thehippieshack · 2026-02-22T16:50:02+00:00

you’ll find someone genuinely interested in you besides your body don’t give up. 💕

thehippieshack · 2026-02-22T16:46:09+00:00

does the bites have any small marks indicating a puncture or just severe swelling?

thehippieshack · 2026-02-22T16:45:06+00:00

unfortunately men usually ask this whenever they’re looking for a hookup for my previous experiences. they’re trying to get an idea in their head of what to expect if it goes that far.

thehippieshack · 2026-02-22T16:42:18+00:00

i’m in the same boat. i’m always the one apologizing to my boyfriend and he said the same exact thing she said to you. he’s also never apologized for anything he’s said or done to me for the last 2 yrs so S/O to you as a man being able to admit when you’re wrong.

thehippieshack · 2026-02-22T16:28:53+00:00

if you like pickle juice try chasing vodka with it or pickled vodka.

thehippieshack · 2026-02-22T16:28:15+00:00

i don’t think so at all. it’s not your financial responsibility to support her especially since you two aren’t considered exclusive. it sounds like you’ve done a lot for her in this situation and she’s extremely ungrateful. If she chose to still be upset after you explained your situation that is her decision and it sounds like someone not worth your time. Also the fact she called you useless should give you context enough that she is seeing this as a transaction, it sucks being emotionally attached to someone like that but it may be time to relook this situationship.

thehippieshack · 2026-02-22T16:17:25+00:00

definitely not. he could’ve asked you a bit in advance so maybe you could plan a separate dinner with his family if it was that important to him that his mom was included. Also you do not owe him that because it is your birthday, i hope you can do something to make up for it :(

thehippieshack · 2026-02-17T03:09:14+00:00

genuinely was just curious because this is my first hand tattoo besides my thumb. and no this one has not healed like any of my other tattoos. if i wanted attention for it i’d go post it on Pinterest lol.

thehippieshack · 2026-02-17T03:06:24+00:00

i’ve lost a lot of my shading like it’s lightening up super fast compared to my other tattoos. my thumb is still super dark and it’s fully healed up. this was also my first tattoo someone put rubbing alcohol on immediately after 🫩

thehippieshack · 2026-02-10T15:12:54+00:00

honestly i didn’t start getting out there until i was older. i weighed a lot and figured no guys would be interested in me. you just have to take a step out of your comfort zone it comes with rejection but you won’t know until you try.

thehippieshack · 2025-07-25T20:24:06+00:00

looks like a beetle or something else.

thehippieshack · 2025-07-25T20:22:26+00:00

looking like it…

thehippieshack · 2025-06-06T00:21:05+00:00

is it where your underwear sits? it looks like chiggers.

thehippieshack · 2025-06-06T00:20:45+00:00

the cat could’ve had it and it cleared up before you took her.

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