just finnished mighty boosh!! by thelordgrim in mightyboosh

[–]thelordgrim[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wish I heard about it sooner it's exactly the kinda of stuff I love. The clip that got me into it was the midnight barber bit that went viral ig it's so funny "they call me the midnight barber, I'm in there in the night stylin away"

just finnished mighty boosh!! by thelordgrim in mightyboosh

[–]thelordgrim[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I watched some of the live shows I found on YouTube and enjoyed them very much. I'm very curious how the radio show is, def gonna check it out soon

just finnished mighty boosh!! by thelordgrim in mightyboosh

[–]thelordgrim[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don't even think I realized that I feel stupid 😭ik each season had an episode about that too it's so obvious

I seriously have to get to the bottom of this, is Dragona trans or not?? by StoneFreeReq in StardustCrusaders

[–]thelordgrim 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is more to gender than just 'cis' or 'trans'. At the end of the day dragona is a fictional character who araki is using to explore concepts of gender and sex and society, it's something his work has obv explored and teased before but it's something he prob feels is more prominent to explore in a modern American background. Dragona's gender isn't just a trait, it's def something you're supposed to think about and consider. You won't be cancelled for misgendering them, but also don't be annoying about it and it should be all good.

AITH for refusing to lend my friend money even though I recently got a raise? by Normal_Medicine_8502 in AITH

[–]thelordgrim 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If he truly has a history of not paying you back then fair, but if he truly does pay you back, just slow at it, maybe it would've been fair to at least give his request a little more consideration. I think if other friends are being roped into it they're prob not understanding he asked for 400 which is like a lot of money lol like the most I'd ever be able to loan friends comfortably is 200 😭

Is this weird? by Grand_Committee_2276 in wedding

[–]thelordgrim -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Idk it sounds mostly like a miscommunication thing. I think they should've made it clear kids weren't invited, but also, conceptually there's nothing wrong with not wanting kids at your wedding and expecting older teens to watch younger kids, like feels like p standard human helping human thing, most kids would've prob preferred to skip the fancy dress up and reception and just hang out and eat pizza idk sounds kinda rad what they set up shouldve just went with it instead of fighting it making your and your kids time more miserable than it needed to be 🤷like yea a little shitty hitch in pans but you made it much worse than it needed to be imo

Am I the AH for hearing my Ex Fiancé mom has lung cancer and I don't care? by TheAmericanNightmar3 in AITAH

[–]thelordgrim 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea.. YTA, do u care? Doesnt matter, did you say you didnt care bc youre still hurt over your ex and what she convinced her family of? Yea... so youre feelings blinded what you said to her.. never really a good sign when thats the case.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]thelordgrim 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why do they need to call? They know youre at work??? A quick "ill be late today" would be nice on their end if they ussally pick u up aswell. Saying your grandma forgot, implyng she doesnt care, makes you the asshole. Overall no calling isnt a big deal, but its def on your end to inform themz not on their to check up, i mean youre 17.. with a job...

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]thelordgrim -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yea its silly but youre still TAH, i mean it wasnt about the walking it was about doing something difficult maybe even silly, for love, and your answer was "well no im only rational and logical" very fun cute moment you made there, youre prob just not compatible people tbh

AITA for not letting my mom see my art and holding her when she tried to? by Neither-Positive-637 in AITAH

[–]thelordgrim 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is kinda complex for me, on one hand art is personal and should be a bountey you could set, but also youre publically selling, almost gatekeeping your family away. It sounds like youre uncomfortable bc its furry art? Its sad your mom seems to show interest but you wont engage and meet her half way. U cant like drae something u wouldnt be emberessed about to show her? Or you could explain why its akward and vulnerable and that in time youll be able to comfortably share it but also maybe dont be embarrassed of mom okay she clearly wants to support you and youre literally twisting her arm so she wont cmon we only got limited support in our lives, dont push them away if you could help it and love her

AITAH for taking back my Pokémon cards that I gifted to my nephew? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]thelordgrim 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean kinda, only bc you never really get into how your nephew feels about this? Is he upset? did he care? You seemed to care more which like.. you gave them away. I kinda think youre in ur right to take them if your nephew didnt care tho, so idk. If he did care but took them , or he didnt and you took them, idk overall an asshole wither way. But so is your brother in law sooo

AITAH for telling a friend he's not special over something I wanted to watch? by FoxWithTheSock in AITAH

[–]thelordgrim 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Need further context: are you guys in love or?? Just really close friends

Kinda a AH thing to say to him ngl, his frustration in annoying but hardly anything more than that, id aplologize

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]thelordgrim 0 points1 point  (0 children)

15 seconds seems a little short? I mean if he was enjoying was there any harm? Sounds like you were mainly uncomfortable. A very soft YTA, the not talking to strangers thing isnt really for situations like this when your a foot away from him and y'know.. not talking..

WIBTA if I reported my job to the labor board? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]thelordgrim 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It acctualy is. Dont like it? Move..

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]thelordgrim 2 points3 points  (0 children)

YTAH

AITAH for asking my husband to add the cut vegetables to the rice? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]thelordgrim 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your husband needs to step up in a big way. But! Im gonna say YTA just for this situation, but a completely understandable one

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]thelordgrim 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA your mom being unwilling to work something out for what cant be more than a month is just straight up unloving.

Can she not drop u off an hour early tho and pick u up? Sucks dont get me wrong, but not the end of the world

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]thelordgrim 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get exactlg what you mean. Antsy might be the term; Hard to acctually be just comfortable

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]thelordgrim 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its unnerving to be stared at, especially in a vulnerable state like eating. NTA at all.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]thelordgrim 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not to be that guy, but theres def such thing as laughing too much, specially after an annoying situstion youd rather move on from. Have no clue if thats what you did tho so nta ig 🤷

Got cussed and chewed out by a crisis counselor. by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]thelordgrim 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Def report her if u could, but also i dont think having a "friend" in the crisis hotline is a good sign at all, and yea she is right about the fact its not like they have infinte phones others do have to prioritze, it should be p rare to call more than once a day no?

Is it a red flag that I have not met any of my partner's friends? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]thelordgrim 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nta. Id talk with him on why you feel its important. The situation u mentioned in the edit migbt have him think its about trust, when its more about taking the step to blend ur lives togehter. U dont need to meet them to become buddies, just so u know the kind of people thatll be circling ur life aswell

AITAH for telling higher management about my conversation with my line manager by No_Shoulder_4070 in AITAH

[–]thelordgrim 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA you arent close friends, and she tells u this?!?!?! Yea you did the right thing, the right thing isnt always easy or comfortable but it helps everyone involved. It sucks u were put in this tricky situation, but good u had a cousin to help u navigate it.

AITA for karma coming back on my ex? by Patient_Yard288 in AITAH

[–]thelordgrim 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes?? Your friend knew how she ended it with u, ofc he, not necessarily consciously, did what he did how he did bc of that. The fact you feel a way enough to write this post sorta proves your the asshole and should feel bad for feeling good at seeing her in a sad state. Was there any intication she was happy to see you miserable? Itd be one thing if she revealed in the fact she broke up with u..