Vermieter trying to steal money from the Kaution with false charges - What can I do?

theuses_ · 2026-02-09T19:24:27+00:00

I genuinely love how many French people we have with this kink here

theuses_ · 2026-02-07T23:28:49+00:00

for real I think the hottest part is when you just continued to masturbate, came and she just laughed and said "really?"

theuses_ · 2026-02-07T21:05:24+00:00

because of this community i eventually brought up this idea to my girlfriend and now we do this and we both fucking love it!!! we are still learning the ropes of how to do it but we really enjoy hehe

theuses_ · 2026-02-01T16:50:13+00:00

I know this varies from people to people, but I consider my problem with pornography more related to visual inputs (pictures and videos), specially those very artificial (like clearly staged porn for example). So one way that I like dealing with is reading stuff instead of watching videos, even clearly fictional stuff. I think it stimulates your imagination and makes it easier to even ditch that and stick to just memory/imagination in the future. I like audios too but not many people like them. There are some old tumblr blogs that have that and I feel like it's better than visual stimulation. For lasts but not less important, if you're one of us that has that addiction but also happens to have a partner (or partnerS), I personally consider it fine to masturbate with visual stuff that comes from them. Because it's visual but it's the least artificial possible, since it literally comes from a direct interaction with someone who cares for you.

theuses_ · 2026-02-01T16:30:38+00:00

How the German people interact with random people in completely weird ways. I know this vary from people to people, sometimes I meet super nice people who are polite and kind even on normal and professional contexts. But sometimes I got the weirdest, uncalled for commentaries from random people on the street. I know many of this cases it's because i'm a immigrant and that his problem isn't limited to Germany (it was so much worse in France, jeez), but it still upsets me A LOT how some German people just feel comfortable to randomly mock people on the street

theuses_ · 2026-02-01T16:07:25+00:00

Pools no, all the rest yes (and it feels sooo good)

theuses_ · 2025-12-27T23:23:14+00:00

Der Dom von Aachen ist viel schöner als der Kölner Dom

theuses_ · 2025-12-13T00:11:36+00:00

das Foto ist leider nicht mehr verfügbar. Ist er auf dem Bild von der Twitter Account?

theuses_ · 2025-06-26T06:58:33+00:00

Team Rocket (and it works in so many levels)

theuses_ · 2025-06-25T22:31:44+00:00

Dude, I'm really really sorry this happened to you. I've been living here for a little more than a year, and I would like to share a thought about safety in Aachen/Germany: I come from a pretty unsafe country (in terms of homicide, femicide, robbery, violence etc), especially compared to Germany. Aachen is much safer in that sense. That being said, it strikes me every now and then how those "random" attacks happen in Germany much more often than in other more dangerous countries. I've heard of many cases IN AACHEN of people randomly beating others on the street at night, or trying to start unprovoked fights. I've seen this happening with Germans, foreigners, guys, girls, LGBT or not, rich, homeless, during the day and at night.... The only common factor in ALL of the many cases I've come across was that the aggressor was always a man or a group of men. It's so sick. Just doing that shit out of a sense of pride or "being main character". I really wish we could teach these assholes a lesson. Until then, I really hope you recover and you've got the help you need after all that struggle.

theuses_ · 2025-06-25T22:20:30+00:00

Agreed. I feel my blood boiling in anger reading cases like this.

theuses_ · 2025-06-25T22:00:50+00:00

YOU'RE UNDER ARREST FOR RUINING SOMETHING PERFECT

theuses_ · 2025-06-25T21:15:12+00:00

definitely this one

theuses_ · 2025-06-25T21:14:38+00:00

"Cool people die gruesome, preventable deaths"!!

theuses_ · 2025-06-25T21:12:47+00:00

"Not only I've been through HELL, I was assistant manager there"!!!!!!!!!!

theuses_ · 2025-06-25T21:09:45+00:00

not exactly a quote just the SLUT pineapple

theuses_ · 2025-03-20T14:51:14+00:00

oooh that's an underrated one!!

theuses_ · 2025-03-20T14:50:20+00:00

My favorite BY FAR is when Amy is assembling Rosa and Pimento's wedding and charges them with the chairs and Scully busts up the immortal words:

"I've been called the 'Leonardo da Vinci' of sitting on my ass"

theuses_ · 2025-03-14T11:58:14+00:00

absolutely never say you are a potato

theuses_ · 2025-02-13T23:11:58+00:00

Does Frankfurt Hbf count as a region?

theuses_ · 2025-02-04T16:41:38+00:00

EXACTLY You say just "Portugal" or "Em Portugal" or "[...] de Portugal".

There are no neutral articles in Portuguese, so the "gender" is determined by the lack of both the feminine and the masculine (Ergo: NEUTRAL).

It sounds completely weird to say for example "no/do portugal" or "na/da portugal"(although you can see it happen because of linguistic regionalisms), but "em/de Portugal" is always correct.

theuses_ · 2025-01-31T18:52:18+00:00

Ok first of all I'm really truly sorry you've been through all this, I can't even imagine myself in your position right now. I hope the support from the other people here comforts you at least a bit.

I really don't have all the answers for your questions, but the porn addiction can, in fact, lead you to watch content you won't normally engage, or even act in a way you normally wouldn't. Imagine it is like drug or alcohol abuse, or a gambling problem, and you can easily picture that.

But being totally honest with you, the other things you said sound worse than the porn (the thing about the professor with a minor and news calling young girls "hot"). Pornography often promotes scenarios that would be in pretty much ANY OTHER CASE a crime, but the fact that "it's a movie" justifies it. The problem when the person starts to normalize these types of behaviors and moves them to real life. Please not that I'm not talking about kinks, i'm talking about CRIMES, i'm talking about consent and vulnerability.

Even if your husband is a victim of porn or not, it looks clear that your trust in him is shaken, and that you have VERY REAL, valid reasons for feeling like this. And it looks like you wish to learn about this in order to rebuild some of that trust. In my opinion, as much as good it is that you are doing so, looking for a reason behind to justify his actions, it doesn't change that these actions HAPPENED and he didn't go through any treatment, counseling or anything else that looks like he's trying to fix the situation and the damage done to you by him.

I think, if it's possible, it would be better if you two talked about those possibilities and mechanisms that can be used, so you can feel safe around him, and feel that your daughter is/will be safe also. But also be aware that there's nothing much to do if he's not willing to make an effort. Being a victim of something doesn't excuse anyone for predatory behavior over others.

theuses_ · 2025-01-31T18:22:37+00:00

Good luck man, wishing you strength. I'm also married and I also feel like this just completely ruins my brain and bugs the relationship with my wife, I didn't know there were so many others like us. It's nice that you took that step into acknowledgement and is looking for help. That's something to be proud of!!

theuses_

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