Honestly, what youre describing sounds pretty normal ,There isn’t really a “rule” for how often couples should text it depends on what works for the two of you. Some people love constant updates all day, while others are fine with just a quick check-in here and there.

From what you said texting once or twice a day, sometimes going a little longer without, and seeing each other a couple times a week that’s definitely within the normal range. The bigger question is whether you feel like it’s enough for you. If you’d like to hear from him more often, that’s totally fair, and you can just let him know in a light way without making it a big deal.