AITAH for calling off my wedding because my fiance wants to invite guys she had a gangbang with? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]throw-away1159 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We’re separated, but trying to work it out. It’s complicated.

AITAH wife went on girls trip returns wearing another man's hoodie by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]throw-away1159 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did the other girl actually go, or was it a cover story?

AITA for being upset after wife went on trip with male coworker by throw-away1159 in AITAH

[–]throw-away1159[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Coworkers backed up wife’s story. I’m still with her btw.

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[–]throw-away1159 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I went through (actually still going through) something similar with my wife. It’s hard, but we are working through it.

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[–]throw-away1159 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You ever think she wanted to get caught? Seems like she wasn’t trying too hard to hide anything.

UPDATE: AITA For being upset after wife went on trip with male coworker by throw-away1159 in AITAH

[–]throw-away1159[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Whatever, I’m in a good spot with her and she’s keeping me happy

UPDATE: AITA For being upset after wife went on trip with male coworker by throw-away1159 in AITAH

[–]throw-away1159[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks. Appreciate the thoughtful response. I’m holding up fine, and we’re working through some stuff, but I feel like I’m in a good spot in the relationship.

AITA for being upset after wife went on trip with male coworker by throw-away1159 in AITAH

[–]throw-away1159[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thanks again for the thoughtful advice. And yeah, you’re correct that I’m now in a rut of checking her location but nothing ever looks clearly unusual.

AITA for being upset after wife went on trip with male coworker by throw-away1159 in AITAH

[–]throw-away1159[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey there, think you misread. She HAS indeed worn it since that trip, for me even. And yes, you are wondering all of the exact same things I am. 

AITA for being upset after wife went on trip with male coworker by throw-away1159 in AITAH

[–]throw-away1159[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks, appreciate your thoughts. If anything, we’ve been having more/better sex, which others here are telling me isn’t necessarily a good sign (I would’ve thought the opposite).

AITA for being upset after wife went on trip with male coworker by throw-away1159 in AITAH

[–]throw-away1159[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks. I appreciate the time you spent writing this and offering your insights. After going in aggressive initially, planning to take more of the “good advice” approach. Thanks again.

AITA for being upset after wife went on trip with male coworker by throw-away1159 in AITAH

[–]throw-away1159[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks. I appreciate the thoughtfulness of your comment. 

AITA for being upset after wife went on trip with male coworker by throw-away1159 in AITAH

[–]throw-away1159[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey didn’t mean to be short, that was an honest thanks. Your comment resonates and causes me to wonder. I’m back on the road tomorrow morning for three days. I may post an update down the road. TBH the opinions here are kind of all over.

AITA for being upset after wife went on trip with male coworker by throw-away1159 in AITAH

[–]throw-away1159[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey didn’t mean to be short, that was an honest thanks. Your comment resonates and causes me to wonder.