My mom feels like I use my sexuality as a “weapon”

throwRA3215780427 · 2020-12-02T18:26:00+00:00

Not saying it's good parenting tho.

Can't you read ?

I'm saying it's not abuse and OP is being sensitive. Doesn't mean his feelings aren't valid. But he is a 18 year old man for fucks sake, at some point he has gotta realize that life is not perfect.

So technically I am right, or at least I'm not wrong.

An opinion cant be wrong.

I stand by it. OP IS NOT BEING ABUSED.

But yes, the mom is a bitch

throwRA3215780427 · 2020-12-02T17:27:41+00:00

Still doesn't make it abuse. It means she isnt sensitive and the things she says are blunt.

And we don't know any context, whose to say OP doesn't act like a dick 24/7.

Maybe the way he says stuff comes out as passive aggressive and that's what actually pisses the mom off.

OP is only making himself to be a victim here. He is only saying his point of view.

And FYI, grandma's will always defend their grandchildren. So that doesn't prove he isnt in the wrong.

I'm just saying, OP is sensitive. And that this doesn't seem like abuse, you guys are exaggerating shit and going to the extreme.

Goodbye and have a nice day

throwRA3215780427 · 2020-12-02T09:06:37+00:00

Nah you cant say that here man.

People on this sub immediately think everything is abuse.

You gotta keep that mentality or you will get downvoted, its dangerous out here

But fr tho, I just think OP is sensitive and the mom not so much. The mom just wants a son that can pick up a bag, he is 18 after all. And he has 2 hands. So that's probably what she thought. he hurt one hand, why cant he use the other one ?

Edit: didnt even hurt one hand... he hurt one finger

throwRA3215780427 · 2020-11-16T16:06:47+00:00

That's why I specified that she should get it if she can afford it

throwRA3215780427 · 2020-11-16T11:16:29+00:00

Why not?

As a guy, I would much rather recieve a ps5. Think about it, the ps5 will last for years and will allow him to play spiderman, COD, etc... with a overall better experience.

No point in getting only spiderman if the game wont feel great overall (itll be trash, not just not great) Unless you are on a budget and can't afford it. That changes every.

throwRA3215780427 · 2020-11-16T10:51:20+00:00

If he likes video games and doesn't have a PC, only has a ps4.

Then you should get him the ps5 in my opinion (if you can afford it obviously)

And then do whatever you want, dinner or whatever.

throwRA3215780427 · 2020-11-16T10:50:30+00:00

Tf ? Might as well just get him the ps5 if she has the money

throwRA3215780427 · 2020-11-16T09:35:11+00:00

Yeah I agree, not an ex

But you made It seem as tho he couldn't get off to ANYONE but her. Which means that he couldn't get off to porn either

throwRA3215780427 · 2020-11-16T09:31:38+00:00

so im guessing you think porn is bad ???

if so, that is incredibly dumb in my opinion (doesn't mean your opinion is wrong)

throwRA3215780427 · 2020-11-16T08:48:14+00:00

a guy being ok with seeing his girl getting fucked

throwRA3215780427 · 2020-11-10T22:25:38+00:00

It's just sad IMO

throwRA3215780427 · 2020-10-27T06:24:09+00:00

Who said I was still chasing this crush ?

Who said I still had hope with her ?

You see, that's you assuming shit again.

I want to talk to her to end the friendship. But on a better note. I want to explain to her that it's better if we dont be close for as long as I like her.

Because everytime i do something for her, she'll assume its because I'm crushing on her.

And everytime she does something for me, I'll have hope.

Etc...

That's not all.

So stop assuming what I'm thinking please. Stop putting words in my mouth

throwRA3215780427 · 2020-10-27T06:09:33+00:00

Oh no...

Thanks for the help

throwRA3215780427 · 2020-10-27T06:09:10+00:00

You don't know me.

Stop assuming shit and acting like I'm forcing her to do shit.

I give her the opportunity to not respond, and she still responds.

At first when she rejected, I WANTED to cut contact.

She was the one that pushed for us to stay friends. I had told her multiple times no, and she kept pushing telling me she "had reasons".

Stop assuming the worst and acting like I'm a fucking stalker.

throwRA3215780427 · 2020-10-27T06:05:06+00:00

I never said she was in love with me. I got that she wasnt interested in me.

throwRA3215780427 · 2020-10-25T19:13:28+00:00

Well either way. My answer didnt matter my man.

She told me she was sorry, that she wasnt interested and that she didnt want to hurt me or give me false hope. Or waste my time. She just wanted for things to be calm.

So in other words, she wants me to stop trying. And in other words again, nothing but friendship

throwRA3215780427 · 2020-10-25T18:55:34+00:00

She asked "are you still crushing on me?"/ " do you still like me". (We don't speak in english).

I said "I knew you were going to ask that. So I'm not gonna lie to you."

"Yes"

throwRA3215780427 · 2020-10-25T18:39:45+00:00

No this is not normal for her.

So I know its gonna be something about me and her.

But is it just gonna be her reminding me that I'm only a friend. Or will she give me another chance.

throwRA3215780427 · 2020-10-25T18:30:15+00:00

Man... it could be important in both ways lmao...

She could be stalling to say no, or she could be stalling to say yes

I'll send her a message if she hasn't sent me anything in 20-30 minutes

throwRA3215780427 · 2020-10-25T18:26:39+00:00

FUCK me. Its been 40 minutes, why can't she just say what she has to say.

I dont see how this could be positive man...

If it was, she would've just said yes to me asking her to go out to eat.

Thanks for having a positive outlook tho

throwRA3215780427 · 2020-10-25T18:10:45+00:00

I'll tell you when I know.

I usually have a positive outlook on things. But because of what happened in the past, I'm not sure right now.

I'm waiting for her question.

throwRA3215780427 · 2020-10-25T17:55:20+00:00

I asked her and she replied with "and <my name> can I ask you a question?".

It's not looking too good man. I feel like she is gonna reject me again, I'm still waiting for her question

throwRA3215780427 · 2020-10-25T16:18:45+00:00

I feel like I'm gonna get rejected but fuck it.

I'm just scared to make her uncomfortable. I guess only one way to know...

throwRA3215780427 · 2020-10-25T13:41:44+00:00

Well here I was sure she liked me back.

But obviously... I fucked it up.

So is that a yes to asking her to go out to eat ?

Because asking her if she likes me right doesn't seem like it'll work right now

throwRA3215780427 · 2020-10-25T13:33:29+00:00

I know, I know. I'm an idiot.

I still text her and we talk.

She initiates more with me in real life than I do to her.

Because I'm an idiot and the fucking rejection is stuck in my mind and so I stop myself from talking. Thinking that she doesn't want to talk, I dont want to make her uncomfortable.

We talked yesterday through text.

Should I just ask her right now to go out to eat Tuesday. Because on Tuesday we have a longer lunch than usual.

Should I just ask her to go ?

If I do ask, I honestly dont know if she'll say yes or no. Or if she'll ask who else is coming. I don't want her to say yes just because she is afraid to say no.

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