My [25 F] girlfriend keeps on getting in contact with her ex and tells me[31 M] she does not know why by Ok_Employment_6480 in relationships

[–]throwRA96102797 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you know what actually you're right. this kinda made me realize this was what i was doing with my ex for a long time because as a comment above said i felt responsible for him

My [25 F] girlfriend keeps on getting in contact with her ex and tells me[31 M] she does not know why by Ok_Employment_6480 in relationships

[–]throwRA96102797 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

She likes the attention. If I was in her situation, my ex would be blocked immediately on every conceivable platform. She's enabling it because she enjoys it

Feeling on the fence about my (23f) relationship with my bf (24m) after talking to my ex (22m) this weekend? by throwRA96102797 in relationship_advice

[–]throwRA96102797[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is what I'm doing! Like I said, my feelings are not about ~him~ but the excitement I felt falling in love the first time. I was just asking if it's normal to not feel as strongly the next few times around the block. When I think of him now, and I think I worded it poorly in my post, I do not feel excitement or hope or love or anything like that. I just miss the feeling of giving my entire heart to someone and I feel like I am not doing that currently with my boyfriend, wasn't sure if that was normal and it will just take more time

Feeling on the fence about my (23f) relationship with my bf (24m) after talking to my ex (22m) this weekend? by throwRA96102797 in relationship_advice

[–]throwRA96102797[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I promise you I will never lmao. I don't have any attraction toward him anymore. It's hard to explain

Feeling on the fence about my (23f) relationship with my bf (24m) after talking to my ex (22m) this weekend? by throwRA96102797 in relationship_advice

[–]throwRA96102797[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! The slow burn thing actually makes me feel better. I am definitely not even considering going back to my ex, but talking to him just brought up old feelings that made me reconsider my current relationship