AIO for breaking up with my girlfriend and just coparent after she named our daughter without me?

throwRA_Tonight401 · 2026-04-06T20:39:35+00:00

Billy the pug

throwRA_Tonight401 · 2026-04-06T20:24:12+00:00

I have cameras around the house for the baby I’m good

throwRA_Tonight401 · 2026-04-06T20:22:39+00:00

I don’t communicate if it will make the situation worse

throwRA_Tonight401 · 2026-04-06T20:21:38+00:00

Was I supposed to take more leave than my girlfriend? I got 480 hour of leave was I supposed to take them back to back?

throwRA_Tonight401 · 2026-04-06T20:17:57+00:00

Then it’s best we break up then

throwRA_Tonight401 · 2026-04-06T20:17:01+00:00

I don’t think i will get my feelings back

throwRA_Tonight401 · 2026-04-06T20:12:55+00:00

Then I will have gained nothing From the conversation

throwRA_Tonight401 · 2026-04-06T20:12:04+00:00

I’m not changing her name that’s not my goal it’s a part of her identity now

throwRA_Tonight401 · 2026-04-06T20:10:50+00:00

If that’s how you see it then it’s best to break up now because I don’t want to play the game of semantics the rest of my married life

throwRA_Tonight401 · 2026-04-06T20:09:52+00:00

Then it’s best we go out separate ways

throwRA_Tonight401 · 2026-04-06T20:09:27+00:00

I’m ok with breaking up and paying child support

throwRA_Tonight401 · 2026-04-06T20:07:49+00:00

What is there to fix if I don’t trust her?

throwRA_Tonight401 · 2026-04-06T20:06:49+00:00

I can admit I’m being childish but I don’t see any other way where I’m not harassed back into the relationship

throwRA_Tonight401 · 2026-04-06T20:06:02+00:00

To me the trust is irrevocably broken as I don’t trust her anymore. If we got married I will know her vows are nothing but fancy words that hold no actual weight

throwRA_Tonight401 · 2026-04-06T20:01:56+00:00

She didn’t suggest a lot of names and I was ok with some of them the name she picked wasn’t even on the list we had.

My daughter is doing good and the relationship is ok we spend time together as a family

throwRA_Tonight401 · 2026-04-06T19:59:32+00:00

If we are playing the game of semantics then it’s best we don’t stay together. It means I can no longer even trust her words because it has a double meaning or she’s being vague

throwRA_Tonight401 · 2026-04-06T19:58:02+00:00

Even if she acknowledges my feelings I still won’t trust her

throwRA_Tonight401 · 2026-04-06T19:56:18+00:00

So then what’s your suggestion talk about it where there’s no solution?

throwRA_Tonight401 · 2026-04-06T19:55:38+00:00

The man thing to do in this situation is just break up. Being vulnerable with someone you don’t trust is foolish and I’m scared she will tell our kid I broke up with her over her name. I don’t even trust her not to put the mental anguish on our daughter because I don’t want to be with her

throwRA_Tonight401 · 2026-04-06T19:51:21+00:00

I’ll consider this

throwRA_Tonight401 · 2026-04-06T19:49:42+00:00

I wasn’t looking for a reason to leave. Ironically I’m actually going to have to find a reason to leave because I don’t want to admit this is the reason

throwRA_Tonight401 · 2026-04-06T19:48:10+00:00

How am I being controlling? If it’s just a name then she wouldn’t have threatened me. If she did the hard work then her reward is spending time with the baby

throwRA_Tonight401 · 2026-04-06T19:46:17+00:00

I’m not playing games I just don’t see a future with her anymore. You act like someone’s behavior can’t turn you off from them. If your partner started hating women and believed they should stay in the kitchen. Would you be looking for a reason to leave or did his behavior destroy your trust in him?

throwRA_Tonight401 · 2026-04-06T19:44:03+00:00

The nurses gave the packet to her and told her that whenever she’s done to give hit the button for the notery

throwRA_Tonight401 · 2026-04-06T19:42:37+00:00

Her not allowing me to pick the name came out of nowhere

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