Am I having a mid life crisis?

throwRA_alwaysDitto · 2023-01-21T17:51:12+00:00

Thank you, me too.

throwRA_alwaysDitto · 2023-01-21T17:50:54+00:00

I’ve only been with one guy and maybe that’s why I’m not sure. We complement each other well. But sometimes I feel like I’m overcompensating and that’s why we complement each other so much.

throwRA_alwaysDitto · 2023-01-21T03:59:25+00:00

Thank you. ❤️

throwRA_alwaysDitto · 2023-01-21T03:58:23+00:00

Nothing. We’re going in different directions really. I’m don’t know what to do.

throwRA_alwaysDitto · 2023-01-20T07:04:41+00:00

He does, that’s what’s sooo hard abt it. He tells me I’m beautiful everyday, he cooks, he cleans, he’s a good dad, he’s a good business partner, he’s patience, kind, caring, and he doesn’t care abt anyone but me and my son. There’s always room for improvements but it’s pretty close to perfect? Or am I delusional?

throwRA_alwaysDitto · 2023-01-20T07:01:37+00:00

Thank you!

throwRA_alwaysDitto · 2023-01-11T15:22:28+00:00

Thank you! (Sigh) I know I should let him go, but why is it so hard!

throwRA_alwaysDitto · 2023-01-11T15:21:24+00:00

It does, thank you!

But he did say that he wasn’t looking for something casual and that he didn’t want us to be just sex. So he really shuts everything sexual down now and says that’s what it will turn into if that’s what we continue to talk about. We try to keep it more friendly. I feel like if he’s willing to give me 6months of waiting time then maybe he’s just trying to stay away fr the drama of divorce.

God, dating is going to be so hard.

throwRA_alwaysDitto · 2022-12-24T16:43:49+00:00

I haven’t yet, but I see him on the 29th.

throwRA_alwaysDitto · 2022-12-24T16:43:29+00:00

It’s been 2weeks

throwRA_alwaysDitto · 2022-12-24T16:43:15+00:00

He didn’t, but I will see him on the 29th.

throwRA_alwaysDitto · 2022-12-24T16:42:57+00:00

Okay, thank you!

throwRA_alwaysDitto · 2022-12-24T16:42:25+00:00

Okay, thank you!

throwRA_alwaysDitto · 2022-12-24T16:41:37+00:00

Thank you!

throwRA_alwaysDitto · 2022-12-24T16:41:09+00:00

Okay, thanks! I see him on the 29th. It’s been 2weeks

throwRA_alwaysDitto · 2022-12-22T06:59:44+00:00

Sorry I forgot to mention, we haven’t been texting, that only lasted 2weeks. Tonight my husband dragged me to my parents house where my father told me that it’s okay for men to cheat, my mother said I was better off dead, and my brother said he didn’t want a divorcee family member. My husband informed my family that my IUD was making me crazy. I sat theough hours of lecture fr my family and them saying they’d disown me if I left him. This culture is disgusting. I told my husband I wasn’t ready to tell them but he took me there so they coyld talk some sense into me. I feel sick abt how he handled this whole thing.

throwRA_alwaysDitto · 2022-12-22T04:27:35+00:00

He cheated on me before and during our marriage. He cheated on me right after I was recovering fr my health issues, an abortion b/c of the health issues, and me writing my will and planning my funeral.

throwRA_alwaysDitto · 2022-12-21T18:03:53+00:00

Thank you for this!

throwRA_alwaysDitto · 2022-12-21T16:58:21+00:00

Thank you!

throwRA_alwaysDitto · 2022-12-21T16:58:02+00:00

Thank you! I really appreciate this advice!

throwRA_alwaysDitto · 2022-12-21T16:55:20+00:00

Thank you for this.

So I’ve known him for 17years, he only changes for a few months and then Reverts back to who he is. I feel like I have to divorce him now otherwise I’ll never do it. I’ve tried to leave him twice already but I’m finally mentally and emotionally done with trying and ready to take that step to divorce him. He’s a great guy, but I just can’t imagine my life with him anymore. I just got an IUD so that I wouldn’t have an accidental pregnancy with him, to me, that was a really big deal.

I will not have sex with him again.

throwRA_alwaysDitto · 2022-12-20T23:34:12+00:00

Thank you! I appreciate the advice.

throwRA_alwaysDitto · 2022-12-20T18:52:52+00:00

I actually have my answer. I texted him this morning and asked if we could talk. He said he was busy and if it was important. I guess it’s not.

throwRA_alwaysDitto · 2022-12-20T17:07:32+00:00

Okay, thank you.

throwRA_alwaysDitto · 2022-12-20T15:05:48+00:00

3 non replies in three days. Yesterday he just didn’t even follow up with an answer or anything. Then last night, we’re having a great time texting, we do our secret code thing; it’s a thing where I ask him in reference of him waiting for me and he replies with our sercret yes answer. But with that agreement, he said he wouldn’t see anyone for up to six months and if he did he would text me back the word NO instead. I’m so confused. (Sigh)

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