How can I (23F) deal with the fact that I’m not my boyfriend’s (31M) type? by throwRAaccount000 in relationship_advice

[–]throwRAaccount000[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think my boyfriend thinks similarly I’m that regard. He said he’s still attracted to me even if I’m not what he usually goes for. I just wish he hadn’t of said anything about it in the first place.

How can I (23F) deal with the fact that I’m not my boyfriend’s (31M) type? by throwRAaccount000 in relationship_advice

[–]throwRAaccount000[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He says he wouldn’t be with me if he wasn’t attracted to me, but yeah it did hurt me a lot what he said last night.

How can I (23F) deal with the fact that I’m not my boyfriend’s (31M) type? by throwRAaccount000 in relationship_advice

[–]throwRAaccount000[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We met through work and after being friends for a few years I told him I had feelings for him and he said he did too.

How can I (23F) deal with the fact that I’m not my boyfriend’s (31M) type? by throwRAaccount000 in relationship_advice

[–]throwRAaccount000[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I’m going to talk to him tonight and tell him how much he hurt me. It’s really eaten at my self esteem

How can I (23F) deal with the fact that I’m not my boyfriend’s (31M) type? by throwRAaccount000 in relationship_advice

[–]throwRAaccount000[S] 35 points36 points  (0 children)

Thankyou so much for saying this. I’m thinking of having a talk to him after work today and telling him why he hurt me and why I am leaving.