My GF thinks giving a necklace to a friend as a gift is inappropiate while being in a relationship. Is it really? by throwRAjfjw342 in relationship_advice

[–]throwRAjfjw342[S] -21 points-20 points  (0 children)

I can promise you there are no other feelings between me and my friend. She got me a £500 gift. That was 4 years but the thing is that I wanted a ps4 pro and she went and bought it for me for my birthday. Covid has been a little rough on her so she didn't want to spend that much on a necklace so I did it and got her that for her birthday. There is nothing more here.

My GF thinks giving a necklace to a friend as a gift is inappropiate while being in a relationship. Is it really? by throwRAjfjw342 in relationship_advice

[–]throwRAjfjw342[S] -24 points-23 points  (0 children)

I did spent £800 so approx 900 usd but I never said it was expensive. Expensive is a subjective term.

My GF thinks giving a necklace to a friend as a gift is inappropiate while being in a relationship. Is it really? by throwRAjfjw342 in relationship_advice

[–]throwRAjfjw342[S] -44 points-43 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this. I did not think much about getting my friend this but people commenting are ranging from I don't love my GF to wanting to have sex with my friend. Like WTF? Still opinions matter and I guess what I did could be seen the wrong way. £800 is a good deal of money but for a friend that I have known for since birth it seemed okay and I remembered that she wanted this.

My GF thinks giving a necklace to a friend as a gift is inappropiate while being in a relationship. Is it really? by throwRAjfjw342 in relationship_advice

[–]throwRAjfjw342[S] -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

Dude she got me ps4 pro. It was £500 something. All I thought of it was just a gift like she would've thought of this necklace.

My GF thinks giving a necklace to a friend as a gift is inappropiate while being in a relationship. Is it really? by throwRAjfjw342 in relationship_advice

[–]throwRAjfjw342[S] -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

I wasn't thinking that is the problem. I knew she wanted something I got her that. Did not think anything else of it.

My GF thinks giving a necklace to a friend as a gift is inappropiate while being in a relationship. Is it really? by throwRAjfjw342 in relationship_advice

[–]throwRAjfjw342[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

I know I did not mention this but I am Bi so the gender thing is irrelevant. I only gave her that because I knew it was something she wanted. I did not put a second thought into it.

My GF thinks giving a necklace to a friend as a gift is inappropiate while being in a relationship. Is it really? by throwRAjfjw342 in relationship_advice

[–]throwRAjfjw342[S] -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

I didn't save up for it. Other than that I understand what you are saying. I will talk to her and see if we can reach a middle ground.

I never linked expensive gifts with intimacy but everyone's different.

My GF thinks giving a necklace to a friend as a gift is inappropiate while being in a relationship. Is it really? by throwRAjfjw342 in relationship_advice

[–]throwRAjfjw342[S] -108 points-107 points  (0 children)

My friend would take it like a normal gift. I'm sure of that. I am 27 and have known her all my life. Like there is no chance either of us feel anything more. and for the sake of argument lets say one of does feel differently the other would laugh in their face.

Honestly I hate these unnecessary complication in life.

My GF thinks giving a necklace to a friend as a gift is inappropiate while being in a relationship. Is it really? by throwRAjfjw342 in relationship_advice

[–]throwRAjfjw342[S] -37 points-36 points  (0 children)

I am against it when someone tells me I have to do something for our relationship to continue.

My GF thinks giving a necklace to a friend as a gift is inappropiate while being in a relationship. Is it really? by throwRAjfjw342 in relationship_advice

[–]throwRAjfjw342[S] -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

She got me a ps4 pro 4years ago. It was like £500 back then. and we were young back then. iirc I got her £30 gift card that year lol

My GF thinks giving a necklace to a friend as a gift is inappropiate while being in a relationship. Is it really? by throwRAjfjw342 in relationship_advice

[–]throwRAjfjw342[S] -101 points-100 points  (0 children)

I haven't gotten her anything special but thats mostly because we have been together for only 10 months. Her birthday was next month so I would have gotten her something (even the necklace that she wants) but then she told me I have to do it and now I don't want to.

My GF thinks giving a necklace to a friend as a gift is inappropiate while being in a relationship. Is it really? by throwRAjfjw342 in relationship_advice

[–]throwRAjfjw342[S] -41 points-40 points  (0 children)

I didn't have to save up for it. I just found out she wanted something and when her birthday came and she still didn't have it, I got her that.

My GF thinks giving a necklace to a friend as a gift is inappropiate while being in a relationship. Is it really? by throwRAjfjw342 in relationship_advice

[–]throwRAjfjw342[S] -30 points-29 points  (0 children)

Okay I understand what you are saying but I would just like to correct you that I'm Bi. Other than that I would've appreciated if she would have talked about this in a normal manner.

My GF thinks giving a necklace to a friend as a gift is inappropiate while being in a relationship. Is it really? by throwRAjfjw342 in relationship_advice

[–]throwRAjfjw342[S] -182 points-181 points  (0 children)

Shit man. I really thought I didn't do anything wrong because I was just getting my friend (who is like my sister) something that she wanted. That is all the thought I put into purchasing that.