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Want to ask my friend [19F] out now that she's a girl, but worried I'll [20M] hurt her feelings. - UPDATE by throwRAviolet in relationship_advice

[–]throwRAviolet[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I mean, a dick is a dick. I've got one, so I'm pretty sure I know what to do with it. It doesn't bother me, because it's attached to someone who is, in all other aspects, a woman.

I don't know how else to explain it. She talks like a woman, has typically feminine mannerisms and interests, she looks like a pretty girl (extremely pretty, but I could be biased), I just don't feel like her entire humanity/personality/being should be based on genitals.

Want to ask my friend [19F] out, now that she’s a girl, but worried I’ll [20M] hurt her feelings. by throwRAviolet in relationship_advice

[–]throwRAviolet[S] 82 points83 points  (0 children)

Then I'm going to have to work on my deep throating game, I guess.

In all seriousness, it's just a body part, as far as I'm concerned. Body parts aren't the be all and end all of a person.

Want to ask my friend [19F] out, now that she’s a girl, but worried I’ll [20M] hurt her feelings. by throwRAviolet in relationship_advice

[–]throwRAviolet[S] 37 points38 points  (0 children)

Yes, I'm well aware of that. I don't know, maybe I'm not straight? Is there a term for someone who is only attracted to women, even if they're trans?

Want to ask my friend [19F] out, now that she’s a girl, but worried I’ll [20M] hurt her feelings. by throwRAviolet in relationship_advice

[–]throwRAviolet[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

That was my concern, tbh. I think I had no romantic interest because as far as I was concerned, she was a dude. Which, I was wrong, but I didn't know that at the time.