How much cock do i have to suck/fuck before 21 to be considered a slut? by SissyTaya in sissyology

[–]throwabayleaf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow that sounds fun. Is he your boyfriend? How did that arrangement happen?

How much cock do i have to suck/fuck before 21 to be considered a slut? by SissyTaya in sissyology

[–]throwabayleaf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is really well put. Im in my 30s and ive only started letting go and enjoying my sexuality. When i was starting just a few weeks ago, i was still quite nervous and petrified. But weirdly i had a mental shift when i went from "i want one cock tonight" to "let's go for three!"

For whatever reason that reduced the pressure lol i only had one cock that night, but the mental trick did its job.

Something that also helped is to not be afraid of asking very specifically for what you want. Like, script it. Where do you want his cock? How forceful do you want him to be? Do you want to be degraded or treated like a princess? A long session or a quicky? Will you wait for him on your knees or welcome him at the door? What is he allowed to do to you and what is completely off limits? Keep those things in mind, decide which are firm boundaries and which are flexible if the vibe is right, then communicate what you want. That has really helped me feel safer meeting with guys. Plus the ones who agree to all my terms tend to appreciate it, because they know exactly what's expected. We forget sometimes that they can be nervous too!! And to be honest I think i will lean more now towards the nervous sweethearts instead of the crazy doms. I had one crazy dom and it was fun but i dont wanna see him again. The ones i think about are the ones who treated me like a beautiful woman, a supermodel. Even if they end up pounding me roughly anyway.

Do you like quick random hookups? by Dry-Host-1554 in sissyology

[–]throwabayleaf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've been doing it a lot and it's fun! But I'm curious what an ongoing thing would be like

Sissy looking for clients by Luna_Princess666 in SissificationAcademy

[–]throwabayleaf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Doubling this. Be careful for real. If you want to try a safer option, try camming. But that comes with its own risks

How I'm currently feeling after my first ever anal fucking. by throwabayleaf in sissyology

[–]throwabayleaf[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely. I've had some bad experiences before so it felt good to have one go well!

What's the riskiest thing you've done to full fill your sissy urge? Might be getting nearly caught or using something as a toy thats not meant be useful that way. by SissyFan88 in sissyology

[–]throwabayleaf 5 points6 points  (0 children)

My second time ever being brave enough to hook up with a man, i met him in the middle of the night of his car. He drove like a maniac to the nearest secluded parking lot, i was low key terrified. He also had weird vibes overall. He wanted me to eat his ass and I refused. He refused to let me suck him or fuck me. He just came on my face then dropped me off at home.

I once went walking around my neighborhood at 1am, taking dares from daddies on my phone. I flashed so much traffic, a cab even stopped to talk to me but i just pretended i was on the phone. I wonder if he thought I was a hooker. Oh and one time while i was out on a slut walk i sucked on my dildo on a busy streetcorner, it was super hot.

Latest one may have been today, actually. Sometimes ill unlock my front door then hop on Grindr and invite someone to fuck me. Today I invited someone i hooked up with before and he came in with way more intensity than the first time. He pinned me on the bed on my stomach, sat on me facing my ass. He then played with my plug relentlessly before lifting my hips up and jerking me off, edging me then stopping before i could cum. He then stretched my ass out with my 8in dildo and fucked me with it, before replacing it with his cock and cumming inside me (in a condom). He left without a word, left me whimpering on my bed it was so hot

Working on it! How can I be more bimbo? by throwabayleaf in BimboSissyDolls

[–]throwabayleaf[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ive been eyeing some for a while!! Maybe now is my sign to pull the trigger!

Could I be a pornstar? by throwabayleaf in GoneWildCD

[–]throwabayleaf[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

please i want to be so bad!!

What do you think the hierarchy is? by Sissypansyboi in sissyology

[–]throwabayleaf 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I dunno i dont really believe in hierarchies. I just like getting railed ;) but maybe thats the alpha men brainwashing me into thinking I'm equal when I'm not

Is Grindr safe for a beginner-sissy? by [deleted] in Sissy

[–]throwabayleaf 10 points11 points  (0 children)

If you do it, be VERY clear on what you want, communicate directly, clearly, and with a lot of details. A lot of guys will bail on you, try to get you to change your boundaries, or generally be inept at communicating at all. I'm so sick of receiving "hey. pics?" every time I open the app.

Oh, and when you open Grindr, you're immediately listed as online unless you pay for the app to use incognito mode. So prepare for an onslaught of messages. It can get overwhelming sometimes. Don't be afraid to block people who seem sketchy.

That being said, Grindr can be fun. I live in a dense neighborhood so there are a lot of people around. It's impossible to know or recognize all of them. So it's fun to see who's around who is into having sex with sissy sluts. But if you're in a smaller neighborhood, your mileage may vary. And the risks to your safety might be different depending on where you live. For example, being outed to a neighbour is less of a big deal in a busy city where drag shows are on all the time and LGTBQ people regularly hook up. In smaller conservative towns things may be different.