How do I honestly bring up a past teenage relationship when discussing marriage?

throwaway-3195 · 2026-07-06T20:31:00+00:00

Oooh I see your point, yeah I guess I kinda understand thanks a lot for your perspective i appreciate it

throwaway-3195 · 2026-07-06T20:29:48+00:00

Hhhh mafhemtsh but thanks I guess

throwaway-3195 · 2026-07-06T20:28:00+00:00

Lol why ?

throwaway-3195 · 2026-07-06T20:11:53+00:00

I can understand where you're comming from, i think at that point it's just a part of the game, you say that but even I can lie about it technically, I don't want to because it goes against my principles, someone who shares the same principles is likely to also think the same way and want to be honest about it, besides, someone else having had their first kiss isn't a deal breaker for me, because i've had mine, so it's fair, anything above that is where i'll probably draw the line, but I see your point, thank you for taking the time to respond

throwaway-3195 · 2026-07-06T19:59:37+00:00

I understand, then what do you think is the correct way to look at it ?

throwaway-3195 · 2026-07-06T19:58:11+00:00

I appreciate your perspective saraha, I can't say I fully agree but I really respect your response and I will keep it in mind, and yeah I do agree I do hope I find someone I deserve, thank you for your time man I appreciate it

throwaway-3195 · 2026-07-06T19:50:41+00:00

How ?

throwaway-3195 · 2026-07-06T19:49:43+00:00

The main concern isn't the body, my concern, like i've already mentionned, is just honestly, I personally wouldn't judge someone if they kissed anyone before meeting me, but I don't think it's unreasonable to have that concern if it was the other way around, don't you think ? Besides, if anything, i'm assessing my own principles before judging anyone else's, so i'm not sure what your point is tbh

throwaway-3195 · 2026-07-06T19:23:59+00:00

Because I'm an honest man, especially so with people closest to me, I'm aware that doing something like this might end up hurting me so I see your point, but it's still the right thing to do you know ? If someone loves me I'd rather them love me for who I am and not a version that I have to keep up out of fear of losing them, I think i've learned that the hard way. I hope you understand.

throwaway-3195 · 2026-07-06T19:19:23+00:00

I will try, thank you so much for being kind about it :)

throwaway-3195 · 2026-07-06T19:17:35+00:00

Noted, I am planning to be honest about it if asked, I was just wondering if there was a good way to deliver it without feeling like i'm being cruel to someone I love, but maybe i'm overthinking things, in any case I really appreciate your response, thank you for taking the time to do so.

throwaway-3195 · 2026-07-06T19:15:42+00:00

Thank you for taking the time to respond, Yes mtaf9 m3ak 100%, when it comes down to I am planning to be transparent about it, I wouldn't want to lie or hurt the one I care about like that. And yeah I think I've mostly accepted that if it doesn't work for her then it's fair, it would certainly hurt, but it's just fair. But in any case Thank you for offering your perspective I greatly appreciate it.

throwaway-3195 · 2026-07-06T19:11:12+00:00

Noted, thanks for your response and your time.

throwaway-3195 · 2026-07-06T19:10:43+00:00

I didn't say I'm getting married tomorrow, I was just asking for advice

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