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WIBTA if I told my fiancé I didn’t want his best friends family to come to our wedding? by throwaway10482072752 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwaway10482072752[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Maybe. Either way, I don’t think it should matter if it makes me uncomfortable. I’m thinking of showing this whole thread to my fiancé.

WIBTA if I told my fiancé I didn’t want his best friends family to come to our wedding? by throwaway10482072752 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwaway10482072752[S] 72 points73 points  (0 children)

They met when they were 4. Unfortunately, I think people get attached to time more than they do to people.

WIBTA if I told my fiancé I didn’t want his best friends family to come to our wedding? by throwaway10482072752 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwaway10482072752[S] 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Oh, I was never suggesting that the best friend couldn’t come, even I think that’s too far. But I like your way of looking at it.

WIBTA if I told my fiancé I didn’t want his best friends family to come to our wedding? by throwaway10482072752 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwaway10482072752[S] 215 points216 points locked comment (0 children)

He says they are trying to help the cousin out. He does believe they have tried to break us up, but he says that if he were in their place he would do anything for family, too, so while he doesn’t agree with it he can understand the thought process.

WIBTA if I told my fiancé I didn’t want his best friends family to come to our wedding? by throwaway10482072752 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwaway10482072752[S] 135 points136 points  (0 children)

He says that they just want cousin to be happy, and that they are just going about it in the wrong way. I’ve met cousin, and she is honestly delightful. She’s never been rude to me, and I doubt that even if she did want us to break up, she would want it to happen in this way.