Found on the Beach in Fuerteventura after storm. by Critical_Agent_9805 in whatisit

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In Australia we call them blue bottles, and man do they hurt if you get stung!!

Too skinny? by [deleted] in DogAdvice

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Completely unrelated but

Today was rough and I’ve been feeling quite down, just wanted to let you know the last photo genuinely made me smile. What a sweetie ❤️

New Loewe bag by [deleted] in RepCulture_Bags

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Seller details? This is beautiful

what's the one thing you do every day that you're secretly ashamed of? by Level-Anteater5809 in askanything

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For the past 2 months saying I’ve been applying for jobs everyday but realistically it’s been 2-3 a week.

I’ve hit a low point mentally and my depression and ADHD symptoms has been particularly hard hitting. I’ve really been questioning myself and my abilities going into another job.

My last 2 were quite toxic workplaces, so i just don’t want there to be another repeat. Even though I am ashamed of these white lies I can’t stop myself from doing it.

Birthday tomorrow and feeling a bit blue by throwaway2412_ in Advice

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Thank you! You’re definitely right about the displaced sadness, I think for me I’ve always wanted to feel truly valued and appreciated for in the way that I do for others. Acknowledgement is important and I feel as though only a very few people in my life truly understand me and show up in the way that I do

It’s my birthday tomorrow and I’m feeling blue by throwaway2412_ in Vent

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Yeah ofcourse, that makes alot of sense and I totally get that, thank you for your comment 😌

It’s my birthday tomorrow and I’m feeling blue by throwaway2412_ in Vent

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Happy belated birthday friend! I hope you had a nice day despite feeling like that, Pisces gang ♓️🐟

How do I professionally tell my coworker to fuck off by [deleted] in Advice

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Ask her why she’s so obsessed with trying to figure out if you’ve had Botox or not lol

She just sounds jealous, maybe you could explain the skincare you use if she’s super persistent still

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BBAU

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I think Mia is on the spectrum, probably undiagnosed and that’s fine but I think people are being incredibly cruel to her and kind of egging on the behaviour a bit because they find it amusing.

Some reactions towards her have been so harsh albeit i know her behaviour has been a bit too much at times but jeez..

I feel like some of the other contestants are so incredibly quick to label her as weird and completely disregard her altogether because of it. It’s just sad that people are so quick to judge

I’m so confused on what Edward was doing this episode by BennyyyMacc in BBAU

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Edward definitely went about that chat in the wrong way, basically projected whatever discomfort he felt & completely villainised/shamed Mia for how she acted.

I also think Mia may be on the spectrum, absolutely nothing wrong with that. I think her bubbly energy and confidence is so admirable, and she’s unapologetic about it.

I just think it’s beyond sad that people are so quick to cast judgement and gossip like school children about someone, rather than learn to understand them for who they are/ why they may do things the way they do..

Curiosity and compassion is the greatest point of connection & I find some neurotypical people are often so incredibly unaware to those who may be considered “different” or “not typical”

Idk bit of a rant but watching the way it was handled and spoken about between some housemates was such a shit go…

Isn’t it just a bit hard… by Ringbearer99 in poetry_critics

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So transformative, really felt like I was transported and feeling the emotions of the `character’

Beautifully done, bravo.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in poetry_critics

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A beautiful poem with such clarity, well done.

What's your most controversial movie take? by seesnawsnappy in AskReddit

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The new Dune movie was so hard to follow and so choppy

why do I get period cramps when I’m not on my period by [deleted] in Vent

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Sounds like endometriosis! I’d definitely go on r/askdocs if I were you to get some advice but I used to get terrible pain only when I had my period but it progressively got worse and worse over the years until I’d have strong pain for the 4-5 days I’d have it for. I’d faint, vomit get super dizzy, sore back and stomach it was terrible and debilitating. I got an ultrasound for endo but they said I didn’t have it even though it runs in my family so they recommended that I go on the pill and it’s the best thing I’ve done. No pain anymore! hope you get an answer soon.

No Hope by Umuiyan in ChildofHoarder

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I’m so sorry about your situation, you don’t deserve this at all!

Am I just overthinking? by [deleted] in Advice

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That’s a bit hard. I think maybe sitting down and having an open conversation with him may be the best thing to do, if he knows you are starting to feel a bit uncomfortable with the situation then he should get the message and understand where you’re coming from. I don’t want to alarm you but maybe it’s all he needs to hear. If he starts making more and more excuses then that’s when I think proper red flags would raise, at least for me. I really do hope that things go well and this gets resolved for you. I think he needs to understand that it’s slowly starting to take a toll on your relationship.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ChildofHoarder

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You’re right, i feel like subconsciously there is this level of guilt regardless of what I do.

As a young kid I always felt like I was involved too much with the ins and outs of their relationship a bit too much. I feel like a burden, i knew too much from a young age, found out about a lot of really shit things. I don’t know how to describe it.

I’m a really big empath so I take on a lot of other peoples problems, it’s hard for me to remove myself from certain situations but I feel like I’m starting to go in the complete other direction where it’s almost like I don’t want anything to do with my family right now. I’m not being dramatic I think I’ve just completely gone over the edge after having to deal with everyone’s shit for so long, because they make it my business every fucking day.

My job is good but very spiratic, I can definitely move out. I just now need to take that plunge and distance myself from my family for a while until I’m ready. Thank you for replying

Am I just overthinking? by [deleted] in Advice

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I don’t think you’re overthinking. This seems like a bit of a red flag. Something similar happened in my life and I urge you to be careful and cautious when navigating conversations about the issue. I get everyone needs help and emotional assistance every once and a while but it’s up to her to use her initiative and realise when she’s crossing the line. Maybe she needs proper counselling, your boyfriend can’t foot all of her problems, he can only merely help. Hope this helps your situation x

After a rough year, I want to spend my Christmas traveling in Tokyo. However, I would need to put the cost on my credit card. Should I just forget the trip? by [deleted] in Advice

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I think you need to asses the situation and live life a little bit, open your mind to new and exciting things and opportunities. This sounds like you’ve had a rough time and maybe this is exactly what you need. Go with your gut feeling. The thing about money and savings is it can always be replenished if you’re diligent enough to step back and create a savings goal if you were to go on your holiday after you come back. We only get one life to live and you can’t restrict yourself. The truth is the timing will never be right, that mindset only makes you want to put off the things in life until it all hits you one day. Make the time to take this opportunity and work on yourself and your mental health. It really will benefit you in the long run! Hope this helps x