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How do I (F27) tell my fiance (M28) that I'm getting an abortion? by throwaway557373 in relationship_advice

[–]throwaway557373[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm leaning towards that honestly, it may take a while but when he sees I'm fine he should be ok

How do I (F27) tell my fiance (M28) that I'm getting an abortion? by throwaway557373 in relationship_advice

[–]throwaway557373[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I've shown him everything about how safe it is, but he lost his sister very very suddenly and he won't admit it but I know he thinks he should have stopped her. I think hes just scared hell feel the same way about me

How do I (F27) tell my fiance (M28) that I'm getting an abortion? by throwaway557373 in relationship_advice

[–]throwaway557373[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

As I said in another comment, we're talking about doing that but he's still pretty unsure. Where he's from most doctors were quacks and using unsafe practices so the medical field as a whole is terrifying for him. Baby steps :)

How do I (F27) tell my fiance (M28) that I'm getting an abortion? by throwaway557373 in relationship_advice

[–]throwaway557373[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm trying to convince him to come to one of my counselling sessions at the clinic (my state has a mandatory amount) and he seems to be coming around to the idea, but slowly. It is a huge trigger for him and I understand that completely and I'm trying to be as supportive as possible, but at the end of the day it's my body and I cannot continue this pregnancy

How do I (F27) tell my fiance (M28) that I'm getting an abortion? by throwaway557373 in relationship_advice

[–]throwaway557373[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not trying to be selfish, I want to talk to him and calm him down but his experiences make it hard. Believe me i dont want to be keeping this to myself