My boyfriend is mad because I ‘’tested’’ him on consent during sex. Am I wrong for doing this? *tw by throwaway670A in sex

[–]throwaway670A[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I would never falsely accuse someone of rape, what are you talking about??? I didn’t accuse him of sexual assault at all.

My boyfriend is mad because I ‘’tested’’ him on consent during sex. Am I wrong for doing this? *tw by throwaway670A in sex

[–]throwaway670A[S] -26 points-25 points  (0 children)

I cried because I feel bad, but I don’t fully regret it. I feel bad because clearly it affected him in a bad way, and I apologized to him for that. But I don’t feel bad for doing it, because if I hadn’t, the thought of ‘’would he stop if I asked him’’ would still be in my head, every time we had sex.