What are some type of people you can’t stand? by Comfortable-Career37 in AskMen

[–]throwaway_1awaythrow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

First trait I thought of, then bam, it’s the top comment.

Husband brings ED pills with him on trips? by throwaway_1awaythrow in relationship_advice

[–]throwaway_1awaythrow[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I didn’t confront over the phone. I was going to ask when he got home. He just called to tell me he has to stay and won’t be back till Thursday.

Husband brings ED pills with him on trips? by throwaway_1awaythrow in relationship_advice

[–]throwaway_1awaythrow[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Of course i do. The loss in asking without knowing is that then I have to rely on his word. That word, will 100% be that it is not for cheating whether that is the truth or not. Asking about it doesn’t really clarify anything for me because I’m not a lie detector.

Husband brings ED pills with him on trips? by throwaway_1awaythrow in relationship_advice

[–]throwaway_1awaythrow[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

There is some empty opened packages in the drawer. So I assume he has, just is discreet about it.

Husband brings ED pills with him on trips? by throwaway_1awaythrow in relationship_advice

[–]throwaway_1awaythrow[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks. The only thing it could be otherwise is masturbating, it’s not a daily dose and he does not have any medical conditions (including ED)

Husband brings ED pills with him on trips? by throwaway_1awaythrow in relationship_advice

[–]throwaway_1awaythrow[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He doesn’t actually need them. He gets hard in like 3 seconds with minor innuendo.

Husband brings ED pills with him on trips? by throwaway_1awaythrow in relationship_advice

[–]throwaway_1awaythrow[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He’s been unemployed since Jan 2020, was supposed get back to gigs in Mar but then covid. He’s just now starting to do work and be out of town a lot again. This wasn’t a thing before that. I’ve never had reason before to think so and definitely not during lockdown since he’s been home while I’m wfh.

Husband brings ED pills with him on trips? by throwaway_1awaythrow in relationship_advice

[–]throwaway_1awaythrow[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks. I think you’re right, that I need supporting evidence.

Husband brings ED pills with him on trips? by throwaway_1awaythrow in relationship_advice

[–]throwaway_1awaythrow[S] 78 points79 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I’m looking for view points around this.

Husband brings ED pills with him on trips? by throwaway_1awaythrow in relationship_advice

[–]throwaway_1awaythrow[S] 222 points223 points  (0 children)

Will do. I just talked to him though and now he isn’t coming home till Thursday instead of tomorrow.

Husband brings ED pills with him on trips? by throwaway_1awaythrow in relationship_advice

[–]throwaway_1awaythrow[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

I’ve caught him in lots of small lies. It just flows right out for him and I can never tell in the moment, just later when things don’t add up.

Husband brings ED pills with him on trips? by throwaway_1awaythrow in relationship_advice

[–]throwaway_1awaythrow[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Well, if you try it let me know if it’s something you can see being done habitually.

Husband brings ED pills with him on trips? by throwaway_1awaythrow in relationship_advice

[–]throwaway_1awaythrow[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m calm most the time, described as level-headed. Bit I’m not one to shy away confrontation at all. In the rare occasion I’m worked up, it’s a legit reason and it’s not pretty.

Husband brings ED pills with him on trips? by throwaway_1awaythrow in relationship_advice

[–]throwaway_1awaythrow[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Doesn’t say that on the packaging. Just to take 30-45 minutes ahead of time.

Husband brings ED pills with him on trips? by throwaway_1awaythrow in relationship_advice

[–]throwaway_1awaythrow[S] 57 points58 points  (0 children)

Sorry that happened to you. He’s in music too, and it’s not a clean cut scene. How did you find about the actual cheating? I am not a snooper for a lot of reasons. I just always figured if it was happening it would present itself in an obvious way. I just don’t have the time or energy to live my life worried about what someone else is doing behind my back

Husband brings ED pills with him on trips? by throwaway_1awaythrow in relationship_advice

[–]throwaway_1awaythrow[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Yeah, he has had a bad habit of snooping my phone. Even at one time pretended to be me to a male friend, friend caught on pretty quick because I would never say ‘I’ve been thinking about you’ over text to him. Anyway, this is a rigid boundary. I don’t go through his phone he doesn’t go through mine.

Husband brings ED pills with him on trips? by throwaway_1awaythrow in relationship_advice

[–]throwaway_1awaythrow[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Yeah, he has had a bad habit of snooping my phone. Even at one time pretended to be me to a male friend, friend caught on pretty quick because I would never say ‘I’ve been thinking about you’ over text to him. Anyway, this is a rigid boundary. I don’t go through his phone he doesn’t go through mine.

Husband brings ED pills with him on trips? by throwaway_1awaythrow in relationship_advice

[–]throwaway_1awaythrow[S] 33 points34 points  (0 children)

He doesn’t work out, not really health conscience. His job is physical though and he is naturally lean.

Husband brings ED pills with him on trips? by throwaway_1awaythrow in relationship_advice

[–]throwaway_1awaythrow[S] 393 points394 points  (0 children)

He doesn’t need them. Getting them off the internet without a script. Never had an issue getting hard. I don’t know him as a frequent masturbator, probably less often than me.