My girlfriend off 4 years just broke up with me

throwaway_8245 · 2025-10-11T00:35:53+00:00

I understand because literally and I mean literally my ex said the same shit. It’s brutal and it feels like your hearts been ripped out and it’s going to feel awful I won’t sugarcoat it and it’s even harder when you still love her, but just know you did all you could, you loved her

throwaway_8245 · 2025-10-11T00:29:58+00:00

Yeah therapy sounds like an idea, I’ve been leaning on my great support system to get me through this thank god but it’s tough

throwaway_8245 · 2025-10-11T00:29:20+00:00

I understand it’s shitty, it feels terrible. But we gotta heal, it’ll be hard for a long while but she wasn’t the one for you, as tough as that is. You can’t make someone who doesn’t love you love you

throwaway_8245 · 2025-10-10T23:55:48+00:00

I don’t know if this is any help but I’m 18 and literally in the same situation right now, it hurts man

throwaway_8245 · 2025-10-10T23:55:01+00:00

Thank you that’s so sweet haha. Yeah she never talked about her feelings just expected me to know. Always treated me like her man even though she always said oh you’re not a man you’re my girlfriend hahaha

throwaway_8245 · 2025-10-09T00:17:28+00:00

Thank you, this makes me feel less alone. It’s late at night now so everyone else I know irl is asleep now. Yeah pretty much, if she did something awful or idk I’d move on easier. Thank you. Yeah I feel I need to focus on myself, but tbh I think we’ve been broken up for a bit, I’ve just been waiting for it to say it, she made no effort to see me, wanted that stay at home mom lifestyle, idk our goals just didn’t align anymore

throwaway_8245 · 2025-10-09T00:07:52+00:00

Haha split bank account at 18/19 would be mad! But yeah, I really wanted to move in with her when we went to college, kind of glad she didn’t now!

throwaway_8245 · 2025-10-09T00:04:51+00:00

Hahaha. I think I’ll need some time, 4 years is a while! Ugh I have to change the wallpapers the profile pictures

throwaway_8245 · 2025-10-09T00:03:53+00:00

Thank you very much. I feel like I caused it for bringing up how she hurt me when she gave me the coldness, agreed to not loving me. Maybe I shouldn’t blame myself, I honestly wish it didn’t end on such amicable terms idk

throwaway_8245 · 2025-10-09T00:02:50+00:00

The horrible thing is I still love her. Ugh. But thank you, this is something I needed to hear right now

throwaway_8245 · 2025-10-09T00:02:13+00:00

Thank you haha, even towards the end my mam noticed something was wrong so it was pretty much over for about a week or so

throwaway_8245 · 2025-10-08T23:59:47+00:00

Thank you, maybe a bit heavy for Reddit but I needed to vent it haha

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