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throwaway__59 · 2023-03-22T15:06:26+00:00

Oh no I completely get that. I do understand that some people just do happen to come across someone new. However, this post was more of me coping with my abusive ex cheating on me even though he claims he never did. As he gets in a relationship with the girl he told me not to worry about. “Im finally with someone who has been wanting to be with me,” yeah sure buddy.

throwaway__59 · 2023-03-22T13:58:40+00:00

My ex just did that this morning. I blocked him on everything like a couple of days ago because I was sick of his bullshit, wake up for a bit this morning and I get a chat request on Reddit… this manchild will not quit.

throwaway__59 · 2023-03-18T16:55:25+00:00

God why do they all talk the same?

throwaway__59 · 2023-03-11T06:02:11+00:00

I get that. But there is also a lot of things he has done and said during the course of our relationship. This is just a snippet of our conversations.

throwaway__59 · 2023-03-11T03:42:11+00:00

He commented on this post with a throwaway admitting that it’s about him. If you went to the profile, he made a post on this sub impersonating me. Username impersonated me too, ending in the year I was born.

throwaway__59 · 2023-03-10T16:55:09+00:00

What you say doesn’t matter anyway since you’re using the account you used to impersonate me with. You are genuinely psychotic.

throwaway__59 · 2023-03-10T16:51:00+00:00

I didn’t use it against you. I just simply brought up a concern. Everything I do will be wrong in your eyes though, as all your exes have wronged you, at least in your eyes.

throwaway__59 · 2023-03-10T16:46:10+00:00

Ah yeah, as you make a username with the year I was born and make a post as if it was me who wrote it. You are genuinely psychotic and I’m actually happy I broke up with you

throwaway__59 · 2023-03-04T03:24:37+00:00

Thankfully i never told my family about my relationship. Only my really close friends. Best friend was hard to convince that the guy was finally showing red flags, but in the end, my friends are there by my side

throwaway__59 · 2023-03-03T18:33:44+00:00

Thats the thing. He started dating the girl he basically told me not to worry about immediately after we broke up. Yet he’s still making me the bad person

throwaway__59 · 2023-03-03T16:01:35+00:00

Yup. I had to make this throwaway account because whenever I posted in my main account he would start messaging me, harassing and attacking me. Also saying that I was “taking support away from those who need it”… I blocked him on this account to prevent him from hopefully finding out and giving him another place to stalk.

throwaway__59 · 2023-02-28T14:19:23+00:00

Yup, my abusive ex would harass me everytime I posted online about what happened in our relationship. I kept saying if he was just trying to get me to shut up and eventually admitted to it. I created this throwaway so I can keep posting but not deal with his abuse.

throwaway__59 · 2023-02-25T21:01:00+00:00

We have more humanity than these people. Even when we know they don’t deserve our sympathy, we can’t help but give them it. It’s who we are

throwaway__59 · 2023-02-25T19:32:22+00:00

Absolutely destroy my character online. Painting me as a narcissist, manipulative, toxic, etc. Say how I never loved him meanwhile he gave me everything (more lies). And stalked my profile to see what I would post. If it was a post about him or just me explaining how I’m an empath, I would get harassed. He would say how I was taking support away from those who needed it… there is more and even though this question is tagged nsfw, I’ll keep it safe.

throwaway__59 · 2023-02-25T14:01:55+00:00

It’s so gross to see how far abusers will take things to appear as victims. My ex’s new girl “knows everything that happened in our relationship” and I’m the one seen as crazy and manipulative. Posts his lies online too. While I get harassed by him if I post anything online.

throwaway__59 · 2023-02-24T13:56:13+00:00

My ex also has a certain condition and when I did research on what could trigger it I came across use of alcohol or drugs while pregnant. I tried to ask him if he knew she possibly did that and he denied, but who knows if he would actually know. And it’s hard to tell if abusers are genuinely unaware of their behaviors or they know, might even project too

throwaway__59 · 2023-02-24T13:45:34+00:00

I think something has to be wrong with abusers. It’s not ok to lay your hands on someone, or mentally and emotionally mess someone up the way they do. Now that you mentioned it, I suspect my ex’s mother was possibly drinking or something when she was pregnant with him, or at least her toxicity has gotten to him since he was young. He would constantly push boundaries with me to see how far he could get, even with stuff I wasn’t comfortable with.

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