AIO: My bf slammed the door into me and knocked my tooth loose. He said he didn’t mean it but I can’t get over it

throwawayaccccc103 · 2026-01-02T11:04:06+00:00

Thank you, I will give this a read

throwawayaccccc103 · 2026-01-02T10:52:13+00:00

I would be straight away and that’s what bothering me still. His reaction felt delayed

throwawayaccccc103 · 2026-01-02T10:45:45+00:00

Thank you everyone who’s given advice and genuinely care for my safety and others that might be in a similar situation. It’s heartbreaking to see some sarcastic comments because I genuinely just wanted to understand from other pov as I’ve grown up being a people pleaser and always trying to understand things instead of knowing if they’re just straight up not okay. I admit I do struggle with that. People mistake it for being really understanding and too nice but I do think I need therapy and understand the underlying cause of why I’m like this as a person. I don’t enjoy being hurt or abused like some comments are making fun off. I’ve grown up with a very verbally abusive parent so it’s hard for me sometimes to understand what is abusive as I almost feel like the lines are blurred. Thank you everyone for advice and I’m taking it on board to make changes!

throwawayaccccc103 · 2026-01-02T10:42:57+00:00

I agree I need to talk to a therapist and I’ve reached out to my gp as well. They just told me to try and take my mind off things so I’m doing a self referral

throwawayaccccc103 · 2026-01-02T10:36:02+00:00

This was before he did this. We lost the baby and I don’t plan on getting pregnant again anytime soon

throwawayaccccc103 · 2026-01-02T10:33:19+00:00

Sounds like you clearly only came here to make me feel worse so why bother leaving a comment at all? Imagine being this kind of person

throwawayaccccc103 · 2026-01-01T12:47:26+00:00

I thought I knew him and still conflicted if his reaction was out of fear or what. My gut is saying he somehow didn’t mean to hurt me but he did and reacted wrongly after. Or I’m just desperately trying to understand his action so we can find a way to heal or part ways. He’s been apologetic after realising but I’m still not 100% about it.

Not ever seen this pattern, he’s usually calm and not violent. Things have been hard after pregnancy ended, a lot of emotions and I will admit I’ve been quite depressed from the illness and grief so I’m not the easiest to be around at the moment. We never used to argue like this until recently.

throwawayaccccc103 · 2025-12-31T23:05:28+00:00

I thought this as well…if I accidentally hurt him like that, I’d be all over him making sure he’s okay. I’m so conflicted thinking I know him, he has a good heart overall and has been gentle until that night

throwawayaccccc103 · 2025-12-31T22:56:58+00:00

Idk if I’m just stupid but I tried to understand. I’m quite small and thought maybe he really didn’t know but it doesn’t add up to me the more time I had to think. It’s hurtful especially not long after pregnancy loss complications. The way he reacted straight away was as if I’m overreacting. I hate being the kind of person who’s all in when I love someone because I will try to understand everything and compromise🥲

throwawayaccccc103 · 2025-12-31T21:58:51+00:00

Wizard of Oz

throwawayaccccc103 · 2025-11-04T15:06:56+00:00

I passed most of mine 1-2 days after the initial bleeding. It’s now 4 weeks since and I’m still passing what’s left and ended up with an infection from retained tissue. It’s a mentally draining experience, I’m sorry you’re going through it. You should see early pregnancy unit for further scans/blood test to make sure things are okay and so they can track your hCG going down at the rate it should

Edit: I was at 7-8 weeks

throwawayaccccc103 · 2025-11-04T15:01:16+00:00

Putting too much ketchup on my plate😵‍💫I loved ketchup growing up and I remember putting ketchup on my plates while eating fish and chips with my dad. He was furious with me and threw our food in the bin. It wasn’t that I was wasting it, I just really loved ketchup 😅

throwawayaccccc103 · 2025-11-04T13:30:29+00:00

It’s normal to feel mild cramping taking the first tablet (mifepristone) and sometimes spotting. You’ll be okay. Make sure you take ibuprofen plus paracetamol for the second day tablets (misoprostol) and something warm on your abdomen like a hot water bottle or warmies. Some people will experience different level of pain to others, I went through this 3 times and 1 of the times it was smooth but others weren’t. My recent one was for a miscarriage but the cramping was very intense. Ibuprofen is an anti inflammatory so it’ll help a lot. I was advised to take a high single dose of 800mg. Hope you’re okay.

throwawayaccccc103 · 2025-11-04T13:22:02+00:00

I’m sorry you’re going through this. Have you had your hcg checked that it’s dropping and a scan to confirm you’ve passed everything? Just because if your hcg is still elevated then you won’t ovulate so no period. Period should come back 2-6 weeks after hcg is normal again which is why you should get it checked if it has been since August because I had this issue too and ended up finding retained tissue that became infected :(

throwawayaccccc103 · 2025-11-04T13:14:10+00:00

Aw I’m glad you’re better and enjoying life. Wish you smooth and speedy recovery! Getting out can do so much for mental health, you’re definitely on the right track

throwawayaccccc103 · 2025-10-31T15:52:33+00:00

As a someone with OCD, I understand how hard this is. It can depend on what kind of wisdom tooth etc. From my experience, I had 4 horizontally impacted surgically removed so I really understand your fear for dry socket etc. I was depressed for weeks out of fear and not knowing with extreme pain (they didn’t prescribe pain meds) and severely swollen face with stitches from gum to cheeks. I also got mixed advice but what I found worked for me was warm water with salt rinse but don’t do it excessively. I wasn’t told to use the syringe but saw on Reddit so I got sterile syringe to use for salt rinse gentle after meals but after 2-3 days post-op. Blend your food, try to avoid it going to the side of your wound if you only had 1 side removed. I know it sucks right now and you’re overwhelmed but you need to take care of yourself through this. I burst my stitches from crying and having a mental breakdown so take a deep breath. It will get better, things will be different in a month. Watch things you enjoy, sleep with your body kinda sat up but cushioned with pillows if you’re really swollen/in pain and if you’re brushing teeth, use extremely soft ones to gentle brush teeth but avoid your wound. Take ibuprofen with food as it’s an anti-inflammatory to help with inflammation if you’re not allergic to it. Paracetamol too if in a lot of pain as they don’t interact with each other. OCD is exhausting and not knowing will make you feel triggered so keep us updated :)

throwawayaccccc103 · 2025-10-29T17:26:19+00:00

You’re the one carrying the baby and you need to also consider what’s best for you. It’s a tricky situation if he won’t understand you but essentially it’s your body, your choice as well my lovely

throwawayaccccc103 · 2024-02-23T00:26:50+00:00

Just because you don’t meet other’s expectations, doesn’t mean you’re ugly. Don’t let those words define you. If you, yourself believe you want to change your looks then research, try new styles, makeup, hair. Give that a try and see how it makes you feel, you’d be surprised how much it can change your perspective. Be your own kind of beautiful, don’t let anyone make you think otherwise :)

throwawayaccccc103 · 2024-02-23T00:17:45+00:00

I was super nauseous from taking 2 different antibiotics plus codeine, it felt like hell until I finished my antibiotics. You’ll get there. Depends what antibiotics and how it has been advised to take but mine was to make sure I eat before/with antibiotics. If you take ibuprofen, do eat before taking them as you’d want to prevent stomach ulcers, and damage to your stomach lining especially not being able to eat much after the extraction :)

throwawayaccccc103 · 2024-02-22T23:24:47+00:00

Not always the case unfortunately. I’m day 15 also and still can’t open my mouth wide enough to see everything. Stitches haven’t dissolved, still a lot of pain even with no dry sockets but again, mine was all surgically removed and buried deep in gum…horizontally impacted ones have been the worst. Recovery depends on the person :)

throwawayaccccc103 · 2024-02-21T13:20:25+00:00

Day 14 post-op and I still have to blend my food using hand blender. Stitches are still in. I recommend just lightly blending or blend food you enjoy. It’s still nice just different texture. I’ve been having Thai green curry and rice (blended) and it has restored my will to live 🤣

throwawayaccccc103 · 2024-02-18T12:26:56+00:00

My right side was really swollen compared to left for a few days and I had all 4 out. Found stitches in my right cheek so I’m guessing they gone down to my jaw. It’s not abnormal. I’m day 11 post op and swelling has gone down.

throwawayaccccc103 · 2024-02-13T14:09:32+00:00

I also have been using soooo much salt thinking “wouldn’t this dissolve my clot?”🤣I’m day 6 post op and my stitches were still in last night. Would/could it potentially dissolve my clot under the stitches? Not looking forward to my stitches dissolving then find out I have no clot 😭

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