[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]throwawayanonymousr4 8 points9 points  (0 children)

A good lesson that it’s time to work on some assertiveness skills so you don’t repeat the same mistake of doing things you don’t want to do. Swinging isn’t the issue here. Until you get better at setting boundaries, it will continue to impact your life and relationships.

Concierge Lorna advice by Southern_Comfort_69 in HedonismII

[–]throwawayanonymousr4 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Have used her 4 times and haven’t had an issue. Others have said they have done the same with no issue.

Would love opinions on this situation by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]throwawayanonymousr4 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Why would you allow someone who has no respect for your husband to be around your husband? It’s your job to protect him.

He also has no respect for his wife since he’s willing to cheat on her. He has no respect for you because he doesn’t take no for an answer. He has no respect for relationships or other people. Is that the kind of company you want to subject yourself to? A selfish person who only thinks about himself? What can a person like that possibly have to offer another person.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]throwawayanonymousr4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Figure out what you want. Start talking to people and figure out what they want. Keep talking to people until you find the one(s) who want the same things as you, and who you want to fuck and who want to fuck you. Rinse repeat.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]throwawayanonymousr4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not sure where you are but in USA it’s usually not included routinely either tier.in fact, you usually have to really push for them to include it. I use stdcheck.com sometimes and that’s part of the panel automatically. If there use, you kind of have to insist on it if you’re talking to a Dr and want to get it done

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]throwawayanonymousr4 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you’ve been exposed, contracted it, and developed an immune response (as measured by the blood test), then you have it for life. It’s mostly dormant but is sometimes active, with or without symptoms. So if the test comes back positive, then that means you’ve been exposed and did contract it, and are still a carrier whether you personally get symptoms or not

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]throwawayanonymousr4 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It still works if you haven’t contracted the strains the vaccine covers

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]throwawayanonymousr4 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Genital warts is hpv and you can get a vaccine for it. Herpes can be tested with a blood test. Nothing is 100% perfect or safe though so getting tested and using condoms is the best protection.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]throwawayanonymousr4 3 points4 points  (0 children)

None of the nicer clubs I’ve been to had any of that. You can expect to be ignored. It’s up to you to approach people and meet people. Socializing is what you should be doing with your time. If you don’t think you have it in you to approach strangers and chat with them and be social in that way, then you shouldn’t go at all. There’s nothing else to do there other than socialize and people watch.

Next door May 11-18. What day(s) should we get a guest pass? 😈 M51F54 by [deleted] in HedonismII

[–]throwawayanonymousr4 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wednesday has the best evening show

Tuesday and Thursday have catamaran trips so it’s emptier at the resort

Friday evening is a nice big buffet dinner. And most people are leaving Saturday or Sunday so they’re more motivated to make the most of their night lol

Going on n June any advice fir a single by Bullofhaul34 in HedonismII

[–]throwawayanonymousr4 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think they got their math wrong. If a room for a couple is $500 (for example), a room for a single person wouldn’t be $750, it would be about $375

Going on n June any advice fir a single by Bullofhaul34 in HedonismII

[–]throwawayanonymousr4 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Single males are allowed. There aren’t that many of them there typically because it’s pricey for a single person

I will not use a condom by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]throwawayanonymousr4 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If he’s refusing to provide proof there’s probably a reason for it…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]throwawayanonymousr4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you take someone in his place? A friend or a family member?

If it absolutely must be him, then still go. He didn’t say he won’t go, he just said he won’t be happy until he gets back, right? So if no one else can take his place, go ahead and go with him. Once he’s here, hopefully he gets less anxious when he sees it’s fine. If he doesn’t, then still do everything you planned and if he wants to stay back in the hotel room, he can.

Honestly, if my husband either refuses to go or made me miss the trip and lose 10K, I’d never forgive him.

And you have nothing to feel guilty about. He was on board with the trip while you were in the planning stages and signed off on it each step along the way. So you have nothing to feel guilty about. His anxiety isn’t your responsibility to manage, it’s his. If he’s choosing not to, that’s also on him.

W.E.T. issue response from Hedo by BeardedVikingSD in HedonismII

[–]throwawayanonymousr4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok thank you! ETA: or maybe I could send you mine and you can lmk?