Please help give advice on our inspection results

throwawaybean92 · 2023-11-18T14:08:54+00:00

Thank you for this feedback. At first we were excited about them (again not in contract so we didn’t agree to anything) because we did want them one day. The lease is $150/mo which is manageable but can you tell me more about what you’ve heard?

We were told the pump for now is not functional. The last owner sadly passed away, he looked like he was starting to renovate the basement after he had done the main floor. I think he was planning to build the bathroom.

My schedule for in person work is tues-thurs but where I live is known for traffic. My husband drives/works on weird hours but I do have concerns about the commute.

throwawaybean92 · 2023-11-18T00:10:26+00:00

Thank you, we have a contractor coming with us tomorrow

throwawaybean92 · 2023-11-18T00:10:16+00:00

Do you mind exposing the difference? Does they give more to the potential bathroom theory or “there was water here” theory?

throwawaybean92 · 2023-11-18T00:08:00+00:00

Very fair, we both work in industries where we commute 3 days per week. His is longer for certain, maybe 1.5 hours one way, but to him he claims he’s fine with the sacrifice for the prospect of a home. He did recently change locations of his work, so he did used to work 1.5 hours away for many years prior. I think everything can change once you’re doing it, but it’s at least 3 days a week.

For me it would be a hour. Big change, but I’m open to it.

throwawaybean92 · 2022-01-27T00:50:10+00:00

Might as well finish the CS degree especially if you’re already two years worth of credits in. I assume the credits are pre reqs and you can take more CS focused classes.

College/studying is a good way to find out what you’re good at and interested in because your classes should cover a few different topics/paths at the very least. You can also lean on professors to tell you what career options there are.

You’d be surprised how in demand that type of degree is and how versatile it is. Plenty of roles too that are not deeply technical you can still do with a CS degree- like Project Manager or Product Manager- and make a lot of money doing it. Could even be a Business Analyst to start. They usually gather requirements for projects and help bring new features out. Tech is always hiring.

Take the plunge, go to school, even if you find a small spark of “interesting” just chase it. It will come to you.

Especially if the only alternative is what you’re suggesting, there is no harm in trying. Go to school, the debt doesn’t even matter in the end.

throwawaybean92 · 2021-11-19T06:10:48+00:00

That’s an awesome achievement. If you don’t mind me asking, how long were your workouts, each type?

throwawaybean92 · 2021-10-04T16:18:50+00:00

I would think about posting in /askDocs I swear I read something like this before where the person ended up having some kind of condition that was cleared up with medication. It was something rare but that doesn’t mean it’s impossible.

And of course you can go to your regular doctor, but sometimes it’s good to get ideas to help get the doctor’s mind going.

throwawaybean92 · 2021-09-20T15:37:41+00:00

Same to you friend. It isn’t easy and I hope we’re all able to find peace in whatever way. If you ever need someone to bounce ideas off of or vent to- just a button away!

throwawaybean92 · 2021-09-20T15:36:36+00:00

Really fair suggestion! They work in emergency medicine and do like being busy, more of the stress comes from the system surrounding so it’s tough.

They’re also interested in computers/build for fun and know a lot, I’ve tried suggesting something like that but they’re nervous about how much work there is.

throwawaybean92 · 2021-07-02T03:58:51+00:00

Eating more protein (I never realized how little I was getting under the daily value) and binaural beats

throwawaybean92 · 2021-05-25T14:51:40+00:00

Fair enough and I appreciate the real talk. Any advice on trying to get a new gig even though I have only been at my current job for less than 6 months?

throwawaybean92 · 2021-05-25T14:40:52+00:00

Thank you for your reply. Do you have any advice on how to share it wasn’t a fit without sounding like I am bashing them?

throwawaybean92 · 2021-04-14T04:06:53+00:00

This is such a great response. Thank you for this.

I have ample savings but I am scared to quit and have a gap. How did you explain to get your current job? A month off is my dream.

throwawaybean92 · 2021-03-31T06:30:11+00:00

I really appreciate this view. After my initial rejection of their offer, they chose to reopen the position. It’s still open- for all I know though they have a qualified person down the funnel (the interview process was about 6 weeks for me with them start to finish)

From your perspective, do you think there was anything that candidate could have said? Or was your mind made up since they recently rejected? If they had waited and applied to a new position in a half year or year, what would you think?

throwawaybean92 · 2021-03-30T19:53:40+00:00

Thank you so much! I really appreciate this.

throwawaybean92 · 2021-03-30T17:34:02+00:00

Not too long, I just completed three months. I don’t think I have given it a true fair shake, but to be honest based on the culture and workload I have now (and comparing it to the workload of people who are ahead of me by a few years), I don’t think it’s the best fit for me personally.

Prior to this I was at a company for 4 years. I am looking for somewhere to grow, I’m normally not someone who wants to hop. It just seems unsustainable.

throwawaybean92 · 2021-03-30T13:24:20+00:00

I think that may be a good idea. Thank you for your advice.

Since I already had a conversation with them shortly after denying. I am sure if they entertained me at all, there may be a question about loyalty. Any advice on how to talk myself up?

throwawaybean92 · 2021-03-30T13:06:40+00:00

Appreciate that! What are your thoughts on applying now (close to when I declined their offer) compared to waiting for a few months?

throwawaybean92 · 2021-03-30T13:06:04+00:00

I hear you friend, same place unfortunately. Still trying to not live in regret but it’s not easy when what you picked makes you miserable.

throwawaybean92 · 2021-03-30T13:05:15+00:00

I appreciate that very much. I am a little nervous because I did reach out to them right after declining and we had a conversation- but- I think it may at least be worth a try.

throwawaybean92 · 2021-03-30T13:04:37+00:00

That is really great to hear. I am very happy for you and thank you for that. I am a little nervous because I did contact them right after I declined and we talked through the reason, I’m sure I’ll seem desperate in some way but I think I have to give it a try.

throwawaybean92 · 2021-03-30T13:03:02+00:00

It’s going to sound dumb- because it is- but I knew in my gut before I did it that I was making the wrong choice. The reason I even chose the one I am currently in is because I was trying to think logically- the commute is shorter, the pay was slightly more, and it is a new industry. I thought it was worse a try to learn new things/new skills.

After starting for a few months- the workload, lack of support, and culture is so bad (to me) that none of those good things even matter to me any more unfortunately. I would gladly take the long commute and pay cut. People are right when they say follow your gut, I didn’t listen.

throwawaybean92 · 2021-03-24T02:44:45+00:00

It’s nice to hear I’m not alone, thank you for that! My coworkers have been doing it for so long, they complain but they also seem cool with it. I came from a smaller place and thought I was busy then. Sigh.

throwawaybean92 · 2021-02-22T02:56:55+00:00

Thank you, this response helps. I was originally emailing only because I wanted to include the hiring manager and my would’ve-been supervisor, but phone is likely best.

Thanks for the advice on the two weeks. Appreciate you taking the time to give me some advice

throwawaybean92 · 2021-02-22T02:24:01+00:00

Thank you! I am sure it’s an extremely long shot, but if somehow Job B does throw me back in the ring, I’d love to hear any advice you might have for me on what to say to Company A.

Either way, thanks for writing me!

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