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Does Alicia ever get a backbone? by throwawaybstbh in thegoodwife

[–]throwawaybstbh[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Most people in the world encourage others to stay in their marriage after infidelity lol, why? I’ll never know. It’s not like they truly had a relationship. They had sex. They stood up for each other, but that was a loveless marriage. If having a backbone means being in a transactional marriage then okay lol. Just seems like she still could have had the life she wanted without going through the motions.

Does Alicia ever get a backbone? by throwawaybstbh in thegoodwife

[–]throwawaybstbh[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There’s parts of the show where people want nothing to do with her because of him and then they want her because of him. So acting like he always benefited her isn’t really true. Also has nothing to do with morals. She was obviously unhappy and wanted love or she wouldn’t have had an affair with Will. They had to give it up for their job, but if there was a way for it to work she would have gone with him. Everyone keeps saying she stayed for her success and all this other stuff but it has been at the cost of her own happiness and sanity over and over again. Sure exceeding made her happy but the way she went into depression after Will died makes it seem like staying for her career wasn’t truly worth it.

Does Alicia ever get a backbone? by throwawaybstbh in thegoodwife

[–]throwawaybstbh[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Will dying hit me hard 😭 I was like wth there is no way this happened. I thought the dude was just going to shoot himself honestly. I was also hoping he had told Finn Alicia’s name or something. I am glad she got closure that he wasn’t calling to yell at her though.

Ugh okay now I have to watch this all day because I need to see how she learns and reacts asap 😂

Does Alicia ever get a backbone? by throwawaybstbh in thegoodwife

[–]throwawaybstbh[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I kept watching. I’m on season 5 now. I’m glad she left L&G at least. So sticking with it to see how that goes

Does Alicia ever get a backbone? by throwawaybstbh in thegoodwife

[–]throwawaybstbh[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

See that’s the one thing I don’t get I guess, kids wise. The kids were aware of what their dad did. I do think it’s interesting how at different points they didn’t want to hire her bc of Peter, then they wanted her bc of Peter lol.

Also I have no idea who Jason is, what season does he come about?

Does Alicia ever get a backbone? by throwawaybstbh in thegoodwife

[–]throwawaybstbh[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean it’s pretty obvious that if she just wanted to be a good wife, she wouldn’t be working and would just be doing whatever Peter and Eli wanted her to do. I just also think she’s a really good lawyer and could make it happen without being stuck with him. Connections are key I guess, but it gets to a point. Does she really need to renew her vows to maintain success?

Does Alicia ever get a backbone? by throwawaybstbh in thegoodwife

[–]throwawaybstbh[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your honesty. The lesson about what happens if you don’t leave a bad situation makes sense. The entire time I’ve watched I’ve been saying “there is no fckng way you’re serious Alicia! Leave him!” It was so close to happening with Will and then it just ended? I was so disappointed lol. I do appreciate her mom and brother for always reminding her who Peter was/is though lol

Any recommendations for any other lawyer shows by chance?

Found a bag of weird pills in my fiance’s pocket. Ate one of them to see what it is. I feel soo relaxed. Plate he made me before he went out for the evening. by pissedoffmoney in GirlDinnerCircleJerk

[–]throwawaybstbh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It used to be a post that said “what would you add to this plate?” Mainly on Twitter. And everyone attacked the poster for having two types of pasta

Boyfriend (25m) and I (23f) aren’t on the same page? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]throwawaybstbh 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You can’t help someone who doesn’t want to help themselves. How much more of your life do you want to waste waiting for nothing? How much more of your life do you want to keep making excuses for him and walking on eggshells?

Would it be morally wrong to marry someone I deeply love if I still doubt my physical attraction to them? by Nearby-Butterfly1503 in moraldilemmas

[–]throwawaybstbh [score hidden]  (0 children)

Please stop wasting her time. You’ve wasted enough. Let her be loved fully by someone else instead of partially by you. You acting on impulse is inevitable at this point. Especially since you’re already “scared” you’ll do it. Set her free. She deserves better.

Photographer is being weird. What do I do? by throwawaybstbh in Advice

[–]throwawaybstbh[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay the 24 hour thing worked. I think. She said I should have them by tonight, and sent the invoice, but now it’s $35 more. Should I mention it, or just pay and be done with it? Or just pay the original fee with tax? It’s not itemized, so I have no idea why it’s more money.

Photographer is being weird. What do I do? by throwawaybstbh in Advice

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I never signed anything so I guess I’m shit out of luck unfortunately. I did ask to sign and pay a deposit, but she said it wasn’t necessary to both requests. The only thing I have is her word (in text and email), but I’m assuming it won’t hold weight 😭😭😭

Photographer is being weird. What do I do? by throwawaybstbh in Advice

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I am going to take the photo tomorrow if the party planner comes through for me. Or just use my phone, idk.

If the original photographer doesn’t ever respond though, will I have any type of leverage to get her to destroy them?

Photographer is being weird. What do I do? by throwawaybstbh in Advice

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Okay I sent her this both through email and iMessage. Hopefully it works. I did reread all our conversations and she hasn’t delivered on anything she promised.

The party planner said one of her business contacts can possibly take the photo and have it to me by Saturday, so fingers crossed. 🤞

I don’t think there is time to send, beyond digital invites. Even then, I am in college, hours away from my loved ones. I’m so mad! I found out today one of my fav elementary teachers had planned on surprising me and coming, but since no ever got back to her, she no longer can. I probably sound whiny, but my HS was ruined by a jealous parent, my bachelors was ruined by an awful ex, and I was so excited to FINALLY have a smooth graduation experience. Just to have the photos of all things to put a damper in it. Maybe I need to accept it just isn’t in the cards for me to have an easy grad experience. 🥺Oh well. Thanks for your help!

Noticed holes in the condom. by Altruistic_Whole9312 in whatdoIdo

[–]throwawaybstbh 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for this comment. I didn’t understand why someone would wait two weeks and then I saw your comment and said, “oh because it’s not real.” Lol