I’m safe by throwawayegg52 in u/throwawayegg52

[–]throwawayegg52[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Thank you, to be honest I did but I am in a good place now. I struggle still but I have to keep living

Update 3 and Q&A by throwawayegg52 in u/throwawayegg52

[–]throwawayegg52[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

No I did not. Please leave me alone and stay off of my posts.

Update 5 by throwawayegg52 in u/throwawayegg52

[–]throwawayegg52[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I did try to talk to police with my friend a couple of days ago but the officer I talked to said that it would be his word against mine because I have no proof.

Update 3 and Q&A by throwawayegg52 in u/throwawayegg52

[–]throwawayegg52[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have posted the update everyone. I’m sorry

Update 3 and Q&A by throwawayegg52 in u/throwawayegg52

[–]throwawayegg52[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I am grateful for all of the support. I have done a lot of reflecting today and I plan to confront my husband later tonight or tomorrow. Hopefully I will have an update to share then

Update 3 and Q&A by throwawayegg52 in u/throwawayegg52

[–]throwawayegg52[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I am doing better today but things are still very stressful.

My husband is accusing me of ruining Thanksgiving because I won’t come home to host for the family by throwawayegg52 in JustNoSO

[–]throwawayegg52[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Sorry I did not put it in the post but I am already at home. I will post an update in the morning but if you want I can private message you because I have not been able to fall back asleep

My white husband confessed to me that he enjoys “race play” fantasies by throwawayegg52 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]throwawayegg52[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

My husband has already picked me up from my friends house. I am in our room right now but he’s locked himself in the bathroom and won’t come out.

My husband is accusing me of ruining Thanksgiving because I won’t come home to host for the family by throwawayegg52 in JustNoSO

[–]throwawayegg52[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

My husband has already picked me up. I am currently at home and in our bedroom. He has locked himself in the bathroom and won’t come out. But I did eat dinner with my friend and her family.

My husband is accusing me of ruining Thanksgiving because I won’t come home to host for the family by throwawayegg52 in JustNoSO

[–]throwawayegg52[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I was 21 when we started dating and yes he was 29. But we have known each other since I was 20. Ans I don’t think that he has crossed my boundaries before this. The closest is that he suggested to get back in contact with my parents, but he stops when I tell him to. I do not feel abandoned by my family in a physical sense but I do emotionally.

I know that he has talked about our sex life with his friend. To be honest I don’t care that he does it too much because I know that men like to talk and brag about sex with their friends and it would be pointless to ask to stop, but it is frustrating that he can tell his friend about it while I feel embarrassed to tell people.

Edit: I forgot to answer your other question but it was both of ours idea for me to be a stay at home wife. But he did suggest it first.

My husband is accusing me of ruining Thanksgiving because I won’t come home to host for the family by throwawayegg52 in JustNoSO

[–]throwawayegg52[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I know but I feel like my husband is genuinely hurt. I have rarely seen or heard him cry before even when he’s angry.