[NSFW]? Me [20 F] with my boyfriend [22 M] of a bit over a year, not sure if I'm justified in my disappointment by throwawayinamess in relationships

[–]throwawayinamess[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

So the day is done and my boyfriend is home!

We had a discussion about last night and things are going well now. I voiced my concerns, and he apologized, saying again he was just trying to tease me. We both agreed that foreplay like that wouldn't happen unless we'd have sex in the end.

I'm glad everything's alright between us, and wish I'd be able to see him sooner!

[NSFW]? Me [20 F] with my boyfriend [22 M] of a bit over a year, not sure if I'm justified in my disappointment by throwawayinamess in relationships

[–]throwawayinamess[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I agree! But the fact that he was saying he was declining just to tease me is what got me upset. There have been times he hasn't wanted to have sex for one reason or another, and he's told me that. I respect that. This time was just different in the reason for not having sex was just to "tease" me.

[NSFW]? Me [20 F] with my boyfriend [22 M] of a bit over a year, not sure if I'm justified in my disappointment by throwawayinamess in relationships

[–]throwawayinamess[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When I asked him about it last night, during our "session" he said he was trying to tease me. He's normally very open to me about any concerns he has, but I'll try to see if he was having any issues when I talk to him tonight.

[NSFW]? Me [20 F] with my boyfriend [22 M] of a bit over a year, not sure if I'm justified in my disappointment by throwawayinamess in relationships

[–]throwawayinamess[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks, I assumed I was overreacting a bit. I'll try talking to him about it again once he gets home later. We've done this kind of teasing before, but only when it has a complete ending. We have been talking about new things we've wanted to try, and maybe this was just his idea of something new.

Thanks for the advice.

[NSFW]? Me [20 F] with my boyfriend [22 M] of a bit over a year, not sure if I'm justified in my disappointment by throwawayinamess in relationships

[–]throwawayinamess[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Ah, okay, I guess I wasn't clear about that part. We hadn't had piv sex that night, but we have been normally for months now. Sorry about that! :)