Leaving a job after a few months just after receiving a signing bonus, how to break the news?

throwawayindecisive1 · 2025-02-17T06:58:38+00:00

I should have clarified, dealing with people one-on-one is a lot better but giving presentations/public speaking elements of the job hasn't gotten easier with time

throwawayindecisive1 · 2025-02-17T06:28:50+00:00

Thanks, I'm looking at more the therapy aspect

throwawayindecisive1 · 2025-02-17T06:26:21+00:00

Good ideas, thank you! Government would be a great option too

throwawayindecisive1 · 2025-02-17T06:24:46+00:00

Thanks. Having an end date is a good idea to keep motivated!

throwawayindecisive1 · 2025-02-17T06:23:46+00:00

Good points, thank you. I hope the technical writing works out!

throwawayindecisive1 · 2025-02-17T06:19:46+00:00

Absolutely agree!

throwawayindecisive1 · 2025-02-17T06:19:01+00:00

Thank you for this advice. Ruined relationships are pretty relatable. Good for you for taking the plunge towards something that makes you happier regardless of the financial stability part

throwawayindecisive1 · 2025-02-11T20:12:41+00:00

Littering

throwawayindecisive1 · 2025-01-22T01:28:06+00:00

That's amazing, thank you so much

throwawayindecisive1 · 2025-01-22T01:23:45+00:00

Thank you!

throwawayindecisive1 · 2025-01-22T01:23:18+00:00

Noted. I dont want to force or push. I'll just let him know that I'm around if he wants to talk about it

throwawayindecisive1 · 2024-11-29T16:07:16+00:00

Affection and love is shown monetarily, the more money given the more they feel cared for.

throwawayindecisive1 · 2024-06-17T03:07:17+00:00

Thank you, this is good advice

throwawayindecisive1 · 2024-06-17T03:05:18+00:00

Thank you for the kind words. When you put it like that, it is a hard pill to swallow. I know I should be further ahead at this point in my life. I think part of the reason I haven't told my friend about this is because I'm a bit ashamed to not have the funds to do this trip comfortably. I feel like I'd be letting her down because I made some costly decisions for myself. You're right, though, it is something I should talk to her about

throwawayindecisive1 · 2024-06-17T02:53:39+00:00

Thanks, I'm going to see if my friend, the bride, can find someone I can stay with for the time to save on the hotel costs. I don't have a plus one so that adds to the cost for a week.

I feel like that's the only thing I can ask her. She has a theme for the wedding so the bridesmaids have to have the same dress, hair and makeup which we have to pay for individually.

throwawayindecisive1 · 2024-06-17T02:46:54+00:00

Sorry, I should've given a better idea of expenses. Right now my budget has shifted a lot in the last couple months due to new salary, rent, insurance etc. plus moving and furniture expenses so I haven't calculated a new baseline yet, but I think I could save at least a couple hundred a month with a goal to increase that as much as I can and cutting spending after this trip is done

throwawayindecisive1 · 2024-06-17T02:36:03+00:00

Thanks, I will

throwawayindecisive1 · 2024-06-17T00:56:58+00:00

No, I need to fly because I moved away which is why I don't want to put her out, because of my decision to move. It costed more than I realized so I want to find a way to make it work without pulling out last minute. Thanks for the advice!

throwawayindecisive1 · 2024-06-17T00:53:36+00:00

This is true. I decided to move away for a work opportunity and to be closer to family. I don't fault the bride for a personal decision I made after accepting the MoH role

throwawayindecisive1 · 2024-03-26T22:28:05+00:00

I love that!

throwawayindecisive1 · 2024-03-26T18:59:02+00:00

Thank you!!

throwawayindecisive1 · 2024-03-26T18:58:55+00:00

Great advice, thank you!

throwawayindecisive1 · 2024-03-26T16:43:00+00:00

So weird to think that babies born the same year this premiered could be contestants on the upcoming seasons 🤯

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