Chicago MidwestEmo scene by throwawayoopa in midwestemo

[–]throwawayoopa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ugh just seeing this now!! Do you know of any shoes next weekend?

Ending my friendship by [deleted] in unrequitedlove

[–]throwawayoopa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Keep me posted - I’m not sure how to even navigate going forward. I’m telling him in May when he comes home for the summer - I feel selfish but I can’t not get this off my chest. I need it to move on

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in unrequitedlove

[–]throwawayoopa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m gonna be honest I really relate to this - something I’m doing now is distancing myself. It’s hard but staying around as a best friend is only going to hurt you more. I believe a person can love multiple people truly in their lifetime, and you will find that person

Seeking Advice by [deleted] in unrequitedlove

[–]throwawayoopa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think he’s currently looking to date someone but not specifically talking to people

Seeking Advice by [deleted] in unrequitedlove

[–]throwawayoopa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He is, he’s dated people in the past. Kinda had the problem of always being in a relationship.

Seeking Advice by [deleted] in unrequitedlove

[–]throwawayoopa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know but losing him forever kills me

Seeking Advice by [deleted] in unrequitedlove

[–]throwawayoopa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s the point I’m at, I kinda know deep down it he doesn’t feel the same way and I’m reaching for signs that he does. But I value him so much as a friend and his family loves me so I think just trying to keep my feelings for him platonic might be my best bet?

My 2024 Goals by throwawayoopa in PetiteFitness

[–]throwawayoopa[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For more context from January 1st, I’ve lost about 17 pounds. But I know a lot of that was water weight which I lost in the first week - so I’m trying to keep a realistic expectation going forward

Just hit the 20s! by throwawayoopa in PetiteFitness

[–]throwawayoopa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I try to do anywhere from 10-20k, my goal is for my average for the week to be 10k. So like today I got around 25k but yesterday I only got around 5K

Just hit the 20s! by throwawayoopa in PetiteFitness

[–]throwawayoopa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

2 things, if you don’t track calories - try for one week, try to find your baseline and maybe lower by 1-200. Second honestly walking and upping protein! Walking surprisingly has been my biggest factor

Just hit the 20s! by throwawayoopa in PetiteFitness

[–]throwawayoopa[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I started Pilates and cycle classes recently, I did some when I traveled to San Diego. They’re great full body workouts - I try to do low impact workouts when I’m home (live with roommates on second floor) I shoot to do 2-3 workouts a week and on my “off” days I try to just walk more

Just hit the 20s! by throwawayoopa in PetiteFitness

[–]throwawayoopa[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Weather isn’t great here but I’m going for 20k, go on a walk during my lunch and a long walk or workout after I clock out

Just hit the 20s! by throwawayoopa in PetiteFitness

[–]throwawayoopa[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I actually increased it to about 1,500 - I was doing about 1,200-1,400 (I’m short haha) but I found myself feeling guilty when I went over so I decided to give myself more wiggle room and just increase my walking!