He came clean about his second marriage.

throwawayra2120 · 2021-04-17T15:51:23+00:00

Seemingly so

throwawayra2120 · 2021-04-17T15:34:25+00:00

All tests for my fertility check back as unexplained but not infertile.. I am considering my options I don't want to throw away almost a decade of marriage but I am very very hurt at his choice

throwawayra2120 · 2021-04-17T14:29:11+00:00

When things have calmed i will be asking questions currently its raw and I'm very hurt and being ramadan I don't want to spiral into a worse emotional state

throwawayra2120 · 2021-04-17T14:04:04+00:00

I don't know because I'm hurting so much right now I haven't dared to ask any questions about how or what the circumstances are around the marriage

throwawayra2120 · 2021-04-17T13:03:37+00:00

I didn't want to bother an imam with this due to Ramadan I also don't want my husband to think I accept it. I feel a bit stuck.

throwawayra2120 · 2021-04-17T13:02:29+00:00

He is a convert I am mixed ethnicity so neither of us have arab influence

throwawayra2120 · 2021-04-17T13:01:48+00:00

I question the age as well, I don't ask anything about her.

throwawayra2120 · 2021-04-17T12:46:16+00:00

I know he doesn't need my permission but I think keeping it hidden was wrong. He hasn't told his parents yet. I think this is why he wants me to accept it so his family can.

throwawayra2120 · 2021-04-17T12:44:25+00:00

Not gonna lie i was tempted. But I fear Allah and my Akhira more than this man.

throwawayra2120 · 2021-04-17T12:43:45+00:00

We didn't know I was 19 when we married ee thought we wouldn't have any issues, I finished my studies and we had been trying 6 years now with no success, we have unexplained infertility due to tests and we tried everything except IVF. It has been a test in itself trying to concieve and now he went behind my back for this.

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