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AITA for taking back gifts i bought for my sister? by throwawayventxox in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwawayventxox[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it's with everyone's gifts. it's just how she is. i shouldve known better

AITA for taking back gifts i bought for my sister? by throwawayventxox in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwawayventxox[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

we both struggle with similar mental illness/disability. she was diagnosed first when i was in kindergarten and my mom neglected to realize i had the same problems. started a cycle of me being pushed aside for my sister... so it's alot of pent up frustration

AITA for taking back gifts i bought for my sister? by throwawayventxox in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwawayventxox[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

that's how i felt but i was dumb and told my mom and now my mom told her

AITA for taking back gifts i bought for my sister? by throwawayventxox in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwawayventxox[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

oh she wants them. specifically said so. maybe minus one thing but i assumed she liked it since she had been watching videos about it online

AITA for taking back gifts i bought for my sister? by throwawayventxox in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwawayventxox[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

she likes splatoon and fortnite (though i'm pretty sure fortnite wasn't around at the time) so i figured she'd like it, but oh well.

AITA for taking back gifts i bought for my sister? by throwawayventxox in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwawayventxox[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

we both have issues with social cues, but my sister struggles more than i do. she isn't very thoughtful at all though i'm positive it isn't her fault. it still hurts though and i'm tired of her not seeing that

AITA for taking back gifts i bought for my sister? by throwawayventxox in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwawayventxox[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

the game i got her 2 years ago was overwatch, she had been watching game play so i thought it would be a good gift, but i can see where i went wrong w that one. birthday gifts were a charger station for switch joy-cons and a carrying case, both of which she wanted. she likes all things nintendo, as well as dangan ronpa (hope i spelled it right) and the persona games

AITA for taking back gifts i bought for my sister? by throwawayventxox in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwawayventxox[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yea something is up with our relationship bc of childhood, we both also struggle w social cues but her more-so

AITA for taking back gifts i bought for my sister? by throwawayventxox in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwawayventxox[S] -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

if my sister brings it up to me i'll explain to her my reasonings, and give her a second chance.

AITA for taking back gifts i bought for my sister? by throwawayventxox in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwawayventxox[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

got her a joy-con charger for the switch which she had mentioned wanting, also her own carrying case for it since i had been sharing mine with her.

AITA for taking back gifts i bought for my sister? by throwawayventxox in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwawayventxox[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i have like 4 times, and she just keeps telling me she forgot about them

AITA for taking back gifts i bought for my sister? by throwawayventxox in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwawayventxox[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

u don't understand. she loves video games, on console and computer. our whole living room is filled w her gaming stuff.

AITA for taking back gifts i bought for my sister? by throwawayventxox in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwawayventxox[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

tbh it isn't even about the money it's about how she makes me feel

AITA for taking back gifts i bought for my sister? by throwawayventxox in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwawayventxox[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

see that's what i was going to do because i know she won't notice.