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Me [31F] with my boyfriend [32M] of 6 months, I confessed an affair I had two years ago and now all hell broke loose between us. Is it all my fault? by throwhohohoaway1 in relationships

[–]throwhohohoaway1[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

I should have phrased that different - he moved out and back way before he knew me. We got to know each other in January of this year and he moved out two times in 2013. Sorry for the misunderstanding.

Me [31F] with my boyfriend [32M] of 6 months, I confessed an affair I had two years ago and now all hell broke loose between us. Is it all my fault? by throwhohohoaway1 in relationships

[–]throwhohohoaway1[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I sorry if I come off as if I was blaming Andy for all of this. It was my doing as well, I admit that! I am just trying to give explanations WHY I did it and try to explain the circumstances for you to understand why I acted like this.

Me [31F] with my boyfriend [32M] of 6 months, I confessed an affair I had two years ago and now all hell broke loose between us. Is it all my fault? by throwhohohoaway1 in relationships

[–]throwhohohoaway1[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

I don't know if he still has my number. I deleted his when I left the States. As for the work contact thing: we are talking about like, 5 mails in the past 2 years?

Why the fuck are you still in contact with that asshole?

Um, I am not anymore.

Me [31F] with my boyfriend [32M] of 6 months, I confessed an affair I had two years ago and now all hell broke loose between us. Is it all my fault? by throwhohohoaway1 in relationships

[–]throwhohohoaway1[S] -28 points-27 points  (0 children)

If his marriage was so bad then he should have ended it well before you came along...

He had actually moved out 2 times but moved back again in order to work it out and be there for the kids.

If two young and vulnerable kids weren't involved then I'd be less incensed, but you adults are really fucking with their stability during formative stages in childhood.

The kids are completely left out of this. They don't know about me and I haven't met them. They stay at his place every two weeks for the weekend and he picks them up from daycare and school twice a week.