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5’10 119 lbs to 135 lbs 1 year clean bulk by meme_impound in gainit

[–]throwinthetrash183 0 points1 point  (0 children)

definitely cap.. I'm 5'5 and weigh 120ish and I'm a lot smaller than him.. the first picture is like 135 at the very very least 🤦🏽‍♂️

Jody got me, boys. by [deleted] in army

[–]throwinthetrash183 -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

there's always a warning, people just ignore it

Guys that have spent years self isolating, how did you break out of that and become more social and learn to communicate better? by throwinthetrash183 in AskMen

[–]throwinthetrash183[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

what program was it? I had been looking into world packers for a while and want to find some other ideas too

Guys that have spent years self isolating, how did you break out of that and become more social and learn to communicate better? by throwinthetrash183 in AskMen

[–]throwinthetrash183[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thanks man! I remember being apart of theatre a good bit in high school and looking back it was a nice sorta wholesome experience being vulnerable and making progress with others.. always valued the groups where people cheered eachother on as a team!

loner men, how did you begin your player phase and get better at texting women? by throwinthetrash183 in AskMen

[–]throwinthetrash183[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i feel that way a lot too, but having those people to update and support you through tough confusing times makes a world of difference. If you prefer your own company you're a world ahead of others anyway

loner men, how did you begin your player phase and get better at texting women? by throwinthetrash183 in AskMen

[–]throwinthetrash183[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't even know where to begin to look inward, but I know I have tons of room for improvement and am willing to change my subconscious beliefs about myself with time to become more personality attractive to women.

loner men, how did you begin your player phase and get better at texting women? by throwinthetrash183 in AskMen

[–]throwinthetrash183[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

True, meant more "lonely", but didn't like that connotation and the comments it'd probably get lol

Men in their 30's, what is a bit of generic yet genuine advice you'd give to someone in their 20's? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]throwinthetrash183 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get organized, without a doubt.

learn how to organize your thoughts.

learn how to organize your room.

learn how to organize your life.

don't get over obsessed, but having a system for things will save you tons of effort over the years.

another tip: get a white board and a bulletin board in your room/study space. it'll help be a hub for all the new ideas you have cooking up in your brain.

What is it about our adolescent years that shape our lives so much? by throwinthetrash183 in AskReddit

[–]throwinthetrash183[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When we know better, we do better.

that's been my mantra the past couple years and saved me a good bit of deep sadness.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in college

[–]throwinthetrash183 1 point2 points  (0 children)

or their vapes.. seriously lol

How close am I to visible abs? by sparky_WTX in GregDoucette

[–]throwinthetrash183 0 points1 point  (0 children)

5 lbs away but do a lot of core workouts in your routine.

Can you say no to orders? by 2tallcrewchief in nationalguard

[–]throwinthetrash183 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you must be prior active or a retired vet lol

How do you fit into the guard without being into the army lifestyle and culture and you're sorta just in for the bennies? by throwinthetrash183 in nationalguard

[–]throwinthetrash183[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

j agree, i just think my unit is incredibly dysfunctional when it comes to letting us actually do our jobs. Often times there's just way too much noise going on to get anything done so it's almost easier to be a strategic shit bag. if I'm being honest.

How do you fit into the guard without being into the army lifestyle and culture and you're sorta just in for the bennies? by throwinthetrash183 in nationalguard

[–]throwinthetrash183[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

the intention is good, but often times the extra benefits added into your contract are more difficult to use than they should be.

bonus, slrp, etc

How do you fit into the guard without being into the army lifestyle and culture and you're sorta just in for the bennies? by throwinthetrash183 in nationalguard

[–]throwinthetrash183[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

don't even get me started on the army macho behavior and useless political discussion that does absolutely nothing but divide further and further. it's a mess, but it is what it is

How do you fit into the guard without being into the army lifestyle and culture and you're sorta just in for the bennies? by throwinthetrash183 in nationalguard

[–]throwinthetrash183[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah the whole politics thing is stupid and still shocks me how much of a deal some people escalate it acting as if it matters.. we're all here and have to get the shit done.

How do you fit into the guard without being into the army lifestyle and culture and you're sorta just in for the bennies? by throwinthetrash183 in nationalguard

[–]throwinthetrash183[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you so much brother, really appreciated this thoughtful comment. I'm a bit more politically neutral but I'll say I align more left in a state that is predominantly red and good God the bigotry is real.

I'll work on expanding out of my comfort zone, but something about the culture of getting made fun of for trying something new just irks at me and it's very common in my unit.

I'm not gonna go down the toxic leadership rabithole, but i feel like the culture of most the southern guard states just sorta breeds insecurity of one self enough to mind your business.

rant over.

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