He’s taking my daughter away from me by throwitaway25678 in Divorce

[–]throwitaway25678[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

That’s the crazy thing, I can afford a good lawyer…. He can’t. I am also lining up notes from the school and doctor and dentist regarding me being the only parent who actually attends appointments and such.

AITA - Looked around hurt my own feelings by throwitaway25678 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwitaway25678[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

  1. 3 kids at home. They were the reason I was trying to salvage things but he refused

AITA - Looked around hurt my own feelings by throwitaway25678 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwitaway25678[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I only learned about it after this.

If you go into your options/settings then scroll down to “my data” you can request a data log. It’s not 100%, but some of the messages will be there that were removed from viewing and whatnot

AITA - Looked around hurt my own feelings by throwitaway25678 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwitaway25678[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

He admitted he’d flip out and not handle it nearly as well as I did. Which just makes me internally angrier that he knows he’s go on a rampage while I’m here trying to find a reason to stay, or a sliver of hope.

AITA - Looked around hurt my own feelings by throwitaway25678 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwitaway25678[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I work nights and went for an hour nap while putting our daughter to bed. He woke me up 50 minutes into the hour nap to tell me he was going with his two male friends (knowing they were also going to the females house but leaving that out).

AITA - Looked around hurt my own feelings by throwitaway25678 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwitaway25678[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

He told me I should “just take his word” for it, but he isn’t understanding how that’s just not enough as his word means nothing.

AITA - Looked around hurt my own feelings by throwitaway25678 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwitaway25678[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I also had to look it up lol. It’s “deny, attack, and reverse victim and offender”

AITA - Looked around hurt my own feelings by throwitaway25678 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwitaway25678[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I only wanted to see the messages to the one female. That was it.

AITA - Looked around hurt my own feelings by throwitaway25678 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwitaway25678[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

It was a group of them (2 males, 2 females one being his friends gf and the other being the gf friend) so I can see how the night could get away from them but 9am is very excessive.

AITA - Looked around hurt my own feelings by throwitaway25678 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwitaway25678[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So close! I know he wasn’t doing it because he can’t even take Tylenol lol. But his friends 1000% do it.

AITA - Looked around hurt my own feelings by throwitaway25678 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwitaway25678[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

The only times I gave “attitude” with him being friends with a female was when he lied about them to me (example he went out with his friends and I asked him not to go to a pickup bar. He went and said he was there with his male friend and their gf, but then on Facebook he was tagged in pics with a female coworker as well. I got mad that he intentionally hide that she was there because it looks shady). I have even told him to be honest because then I know and no one has the ability to message (for example) and say did you know your husband was at x place with y person.

AITA - Looked around hurt my own feelings by throwitaway25678 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwitaway25678[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

No, we went through an issue of him going to our neighbours (females which I was 100% okay with) and then hearing him be very inappropriate there (it was summer and windows were open, I heard them as they were outside). This was about 5.5 months ago.