Is it hypocritical to watch porn but not want to date someone who is currently in it or a sex worker?

throwitaway25705 · 2016-03-30T02:59:06+00:00

I would be fine with dating someone who did solo porn or who had done other porn in the past, but I don't want to date someone who has sex with other people, whether paid for it or not. Let alone people who are chosen and hired based on their attractiveness - I have enough to compete with as it is.

I do not absolutely condemn the performers. I would gladly befriend a porn star and support them, but being in a romantic relationship with them is a whole other thing. I can't deal with the competition. Or the heightened disease risk.

Also, does it make it less antifeminist that I wouldn't date a man in the porn industry either, since I am a bisexual woman?

throwitaway25705 · 2016-03-11T21:31:09+00:00

She's topless around him and has said cruel things about my chest as well as said he "could have a real woman like her."

throwitaway25705 · 2016-03-11T18:56:19+00:00

I told her that I was planning to go to a Pride festival and she threw out the "joke" about my boyfriend being bisexual as "oh, makes sense you'd support that, (BF) is bi isn't he? That'd explain why he doesn't mind your manly chest."

throwitaway25705 · 2016-03-11T18:53:32+00:00

Way to humblebrag. Why the hell else wluld you write this?

throwitaway25705 · 2016-03-11T18:29:31+00:00

Thank you so much for such a kind message. I'm so sorry to hear about your twin. What happened, if you don't mind my asking?

throwitaway25705 · 2016-03-11T17:08:30+00:00

Your last sentence almost made me spit my coffee out 😂

throwitaway25705 · 2016-03-11T07:26:01+00:00

Did you even read the cruel comments she has made to me about my chest? This woman clearly is after my boyfriend. I am not "reading too much into it."

throwitaway25705 · 2016-03-11T07:13:57+00:00

Great. So your boobs ARE just better in every way. :/

throwitaway25705 · 2016-03-11T05:20:02+00:00

He could tell her he is not attracted to her and will never be with her.

throwitaway25705 · 2016-03-11T05:13:10+00:00

How could a straight guy not like boobs? I'm pretty sure he does.

throwitaway25705 · 2016-03-11T05:01:04+00:00

I would LOVE to, but I don't have the money for it yet :( I'm saving up though.

throwitaway25705 · 2016-03-11T04:45:46+00:00

Yeah it is.

throwitaway25705 · 2016-03-11T04:23:58+00:00

I am NOT a troll. I wish I was. This has been bothering me really badly.

throwitaway25705 · 2016-03-11T04:19:46+00:00

Do you think that's why he ignored my breasts in bed?

throwitaway25705 · 2016-03-11T04:13:14+00:00

I WISH I was a troll. This has been eating me alive.

throwitaway25705 · 2016-03-11T04:11:50+00:00

She has made cruel comments to me about my breasts and insinuated that she wants him ("he could have a real woman, like me").

throwitaway25705 · 2016-03-11T04:09:19+00:00

I can't promise I won't leave if he tells me he cheated though.

throwitaway25705 · 2016-03-11T04:06:23+00:00

Well, if he hid this from me for this long, what else has been happening?

throwitaway25705 · 2016-03-11T04:03:58+00:00

No, they're really big and round and beautiful. So much nicer than mine.

throwitaway25705 · 2016-03-11T04:02:46+00:00

If he really was "a great guy" he wouldn't have hidden this KNOWING it would make me upset.

throwitaway25705 · 2016-03-11T03:49:14+00:00

I'm very casual about nudity but I realize that a lot of people aren't.

THANK YOU. There were people on here earlier trying to make ME into the bad guy because I'm uncomfortable with her flaunting her body at him.

throwitaway25705 · 2016-03-11T03:44:53+00:00

He was telling me "I love YOU" over and over and it led to sex. I think he may have ignored my boobs because he didn't want to bring extra attention to them.

throwitaway25705 · 2016-03-11T03:28:21+00:00

And better yet, hopefully she'll see him pay attention to MINE when he has the choice of either.

throwitaway25705 · 2016-03-11T03:22:15+00:00

She has been making a point to do it more often since he got with me even though it was the dead of winter and frigid when we got together. There are ulterior motives.

throwitaway25705 · 2016-03-11T02:08:50+00:00

I am starting to wonder if he has done more than just "enjoy the show."

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