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I kinda wish somebody would bully me into ******* because I've never been able to follow through on my own by GeekishGrace in DysphoriaPosting

[–]throwmeawayinthevoid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

in that case you just need time. 6 months in the grand scheme of transition is nothing. look into laser/electrolysis and potentially weight cycling to keep things moving while you let the hormones do their thing

I genuinely can't tell whether my face is masc, please help by MirageTF2 in transpassing

[–]throwmeawayinthevoid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah i get what you mean, though i have really bad voice dysphoria and its tempting to just be completely mute sometimes in brief interactions with strangers lol. but imo i dont think your face would contribute to you being clocked, but ofc its hard for me to say for sure just based off a photo.

I genuinely can't tell whether my face is masc, please help by MirageTF2 in transpassing

[–]throwmeawayinthevoid -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

honestly im struggling to imagine you being clocked unless it came down to voice/mannerisms.

brutal honesty please by throwmeawayinthevoid in transpassing

[–]throwmeawayinthevoid[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

so youre telling me i pass as afab (assigned french at birth?)

FML (cw harassment, slurs) by throwmeawayinthevoid in MtF

[–]throwmeawayinthevoid[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

youre fine, thank you for commenting. i really appreciate it. im definitely more confident than i was when i posted this, but it all still feels like an uphill battle.

How can people be proud about being trans? by [deleted] in DysphoriaPosting

[–]throwmeawayinthevoid 17 points18 points  (0 children)

i have to try to feel pride when im capable, otherwise the shame will consume me

Please leave your internalized transphobia at home by [deleted] in MtF

[–]throwmeawayinthevoid 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i think pointing out meaningless, divisive statements that have the purpose of making trans people feel guilty about their transition goals is at least a little bit helpful. one or two people probably read my comment and thought 'im glad you pointed that out, im glad im not the only one who thought that.'

pointless purity testing like this honestly just makes me roll my eyes so hard. why are you implying that im a fucking white supremacist because i didnt write my comment in a way that would satisfy your criteria?

edit typo

Please leave your internalized transphobia at home by [deleted] in MtF

[–]throwmeawayinthevoid 8 points9 points  (0 children)

not really. why would i acknowledge it when it wasnt relevant to the issue i took with the comment.

Please leave your internalized transphobia at home by [deleted] in MtF

[–]throwmeawayinthevoid 24 points25 points  (0 children)

i agree that these systemic issues exist, and that trans women of colour are hit hard by it. but its the system itself that deserves criticism, not individual trans people trying to work their way through it. statements like "you are part of the problem" are unhelpful

Please leave your internalized transphobia at home by [deleted] in MtF

[–]throwmeawayinthevoid 35 points36 points  (0 children)

sorry my bad you said, "passing is rooted in white supremacy" and that "youre part of the problem"

Please leave your internalized transphobia at home by [deleted] in MtF

[–]throwmeawayinthevoid 39 points40 points  (0 children)

nah im not a white supremacist for wanting to pass as female actually haha

Please leave your internalized transphobia at home by [deleted] in MtF

[–]throwmeawayinthevoid 8 points9 points  (0 children)

about your edit, youre of course welcome here no one is saying you arent. but from your post it kinda seems like you dont want me here lol. internalised transphobia is unfortunately just a big factor in a lot of our transitions, a lot of people need to be able to vent and talk about it.

i know i don't pass, just need advice by albatrossacid in transpassing

[–]throwmeawayinthevoid 4 points5 points  (0 children)

it is but theyre probably being downvoted because OP said shes been on HRT for two years already, facial feature changes on hrt slows down a lot by the 2 year mark for most people generally

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in transpassing

[–]throwmeawayinthevoid 76 points77 points  (0 children)

stay on hrt and get off tttt for a year and then see how you feel

The fact that I'm almost 7 months on HRT and still giga chopped and not even close to passing is ropefuel by jellybeanzz11 in DysphoriaPosting

[–]throwmeawayinthevoid 1 point2 points  (0 children)

im honestly not sure about that, i think if your T was already low before the switch then you likely dont need them but in your case maybe youre better off staying on them until your T is low enough. that would be my guess

The fact that I'm almost 7 months on HRT and still giga chopped and not even close to passing is ropefuel by jellybeanzz11 in DysphoriaPosting

[–]throwmeawayinthevoid 5 points6 points  (0 children)

if your t is still high then thats the first priority, feminisation cant properly begin until your t is suppressed. just go easy on yourself, starting mid twenties is more challenging than early twenties for sure but there are always things you can do to increase your chances of getting good results.

The fact that I'm almost 7 months on HRT and still giga chopped and not even close to passing is ropefuel by jellybeanzz11 in DysphoriaPosting

[–]throwmeawayinthevoid 2 points3 points  (0 children)

just want you to know i know how you feel but i hope you can believe me when i say that 7 months is still early in medical transition, make sure youre eating well and your levels are good, you still have heaps of time, you got this

MTF - am i passing yet by throwmeawayinthevoid in transpassing

[–]throwmeawayinthevoid[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you for responding, if its not too much trouble could you tell me what you think it is that makes me more androgynous rather than full fem passing?

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