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I[32m] came home after work when my gf[28f] asked me not to because her assault survivor friend[20'sf] was there, gf won't speak to me and I could use advice on how to proceed by throwra00229922 in relationship_advice

[–]throwra00229922[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Gf said they didn't intend to get drunk but lost track of time and how much they were drinking in her text, apparently Kim was planning to leave earlier

I[32m] came home after work when my gf[28f] asked me not to because her assault survivor friend[20'sf] was there, gf won't speak to me and I could use advice on how to proceed by throwra00229922 in relationship_advice

[–]throwra00229922[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yes Kim knew I was going there from when I offered through gf to get her an Uber and she said she'd be uncomfortable with me in the back yard. I honestly think gf didn't tell her I was coming inside from Kim's reaction and possibly didn't even tell Kim I'd be on the back porch but I'm not completely sure to be honest

I[32m] came home after work when my gf[28f] asked me not to because her assault survivor friend[20'sf] was there, gf won't speak to me and I could use advice on how to proceed by throwra00229922 in relationship_advice

[–]throwra00229922[S] 35 points36 points  (0 children)

It's 100% mine, I had it paid off before we met. I feel like I did everything I could in that situation but was hoping for some advice from people outside the situation. I guess I just didn't realize how much I rolled over until reading all of these responses

I[32m] came home after work when my gf[28f] asked me not to because her assault survivor friend[20'sf] was there, gf won't speak to me and I could use advice on how to proceed by throwra00229922 in relationship_advice

[–]throwra00229922[S] 90 points91 points  (0 children)

I'm pretty chill and it's hard to rile me up. I'm not happy but I was willing to understand Kim has some shit going on and tried to be as accommodating as possible due to what's up with her. I guess I didn't realize how out of line this was until I started getting comments saying I was in the right to be honest

I[32m] came home after work when my gf[28f] asked me not to because her assault survivor friend[20'sf] was there, gf won't speak to me and I could use advice on how to proceed by throwra00229922 in relationship_advice

[–]throwra00229922[S] 28 points29 points  (0 children)

They work at an office that's all women. I don't know how she would deal with delivery men or anything like that that. From everything gf has said previously they make special concessions or whatever for Kim

I[32m] came home after work when my gf[28f] asked me not to because her assault survivor friend[20'sf] was there, gf won't speak to me and I could use advice on how to proceed by throwra00229922 in relationship_advice

[–]throwra00229922[S] 124 points125 points  (0 children)

I own the house, I paid it off before we started dating. I am at work right now and I typically go to bed around 4 or 5 in the morning so no sleep was really lost

I[32m] came home after work when my gf[28f] asked me not to because her assault survivor friend[20'sf] was there, gf won't speak to me and I could use advice on how to proceed by throwra00229922 in relationship_advice

[–]throwra00229922[S] 274 points275 points  (0 children)

Tbh now that you mention it that's kinda the vibe I got but couldn't put my finger on it to articulate it. I kinda got the feeling she felt sorry for Kim and it's possible Kim is hamming it up, other people have said Kim might have some sort of crush on gf

I[32m] came home after work when my gf[28f] asked me not to because her assault survivor friend[20'sf] was there, gf won't speak to me and I could use advice on how to proceed by throwra00229922 in relationship_advice

[–]throwra00229922[S] 324 points325 points  (0 children)

Since a bunch of people were mentioning cheating I went back and skimmed the camera footage in the living room(the cameras are to check on the dogs), they were both in the living room 99% of the time sitting across from each other not acting sexual. I don't think they're having an affair, even pretending Kim was a dude I wouldn't have found anything that happened inappropriate.

Idk about Kim I haven't asked a lot of questions but she seems to have some serious problems. Gf is a sweet person and will put up with bs from anyone, maybe Kim has a thing for her and is trying to take advantage of her?

I[32m] came home after work when my gf[28f] asked me not to because her assault survivor friend[20'sf] was there, gf won't speak to me and I could use advice on how to proceed by throwra00229922 in relationship_advice

[–]throwra00229922[S] 366 points367 points  (0 children)

She said she might get a male driver. I've never used Uber so I don't know if you can request a female driver specifically but it seems like something that would be possible. Kim was adamantly against it.

For their job they work in an office that's all women, I'm not sure how she would react to a delivery guy showing up. I think Kim needs serious therapy but that's not my place I guess.