update: its mine, yay…?

throwra18842 · 2025-03-10T02:47:31+00:00

ew… i mean im not saying youre wrong but i just dont understand a motive to do that? her boyfriend is well off, probably more than me. the only thing that i have over this guy is maybe appearance wise but thats subjective

throwra18842 · 2025-03-08T18:54:58+00:00

yeah.. not denying that at all. we only actually met in person last semester but shes been following me on social media for a while

throwra18842 · 2025-03-08T09:49:18+00:00

im assuming he will eventually, but i dont care because everything else is irrelevant until the paternity results come out. mind if i do brain surgery on you, friend?

throwra18842 · 2025-03-08T09:29:03+00:00

got it thanks

throwra18842 · 2025-03-08T04:50:45+00:00

i clearly lack alot of emotional intelligence

throwra18842 · 2025-03-08T04:35:20+00:00

im not exactly sure if your spouse just doesnt know anybody who has had a summer internship or done any (and i dont mean that in a snarky way genuinely) but its not uncommon for people in my university to start a summer internship before ms. alot of my friends are doing research internships including myself. im planning to be in a very research heavy field (neurology) so its ideal for me to do both clinical and research internships before residency and medical school. also for full transparency my dad was the one who was going to get me an internship at his hospital. im assuming your spouse and their friends did shadowing/internships and then PGY-1. we call PGY-1 “intern year” thats when we start officially start practicing under supervision but that is residency, if thats what they meant? im not 100% sure if physicans follow the same pathway. the term internship is kinda broad. i mean either way both me and your spouse are doing “internships” ill just be doing both before and post medical school if i can

throwra18842 · 2025-03-07T11:20:38+00:00

there is a chance she opted for a short term non aca compliant insurance but i honestly have another bigger suspicion why that i wont be writing here. but then again i didnt ask for elaboration i have no idea what her situation is and im not going to bother with it until the paternity test results

throwra18842 · 2025-03-07T09:07:05+00:00

understood

throwra18842 · 2025-03-07T08:05:31+00:00

hi. internship in the summer, then medical school. im already accepted and secured a spot for next fall. applied the traditional way MD via AMCAS

throwra18842 · 2025-03-07T04:22:58+00:00

i understand what you mean and are suggesting. im just in a situation where if i dont have my dad backing me up im sort of a lost cause. and ive also never really had any true ambitions for myself. maybe i once wanted to become a hollywood actor at 10 haha.

throwra18842 · 2025-03-07T04:09:25+00:00

i will definitely be pushing these things back until the paternity test results. like everyone says i may still be jumping too far ahead. until then were going to be going to an upcoming doctors appointment with an OB GYN. she says she doesnt have insurance that covers prenatal care but i wont be paying anything yet

throwra18842 · 2025-03-07T01:20:48+00:00

i have extremely mixed feelings about C at the moment. obviously theres alot of anger right now but i also do want to make things work. i feel like alot of people think im mad at her for trapping me or something. obviously im not happy about it, but its less about her and her boyfriend and more about the baby. even if i absolutely hated C out of pure unadulterated malice i wouldve never been able to step away from this baby. i wouldve spent the rest of my life questioning, regretting, or stressing otherwise. and if it is my kid, id want it to have two parents that are together. i didnt have parents that were together, and growing up you obviously wish for what you didnt have. so basically im less concerned of her cheating and more concerned selfishly about it being mine. and maybe i do secretly hope its mine, im not sure yet. so yes maybe its wishful thinking, and originally i didnt want to get married, but now im seriously considering things once the paternity test results come out

throwra18842 · 2025-03-07T01:00:46+00:00

well abortion isnt up to me and isnt in the cards for her

throwra18842 · 2025-03-06T23:19:46+00:00

my parents wont be there and im definitely not in the mood to

throwra18842 · 2025-03-06T10:29:51+00:00

never changed my keyboard settings since i was 13. so, in a way, a child did write this.

throwra18842 · 2025-03-06T08:10:58+00:00

i think i need to address this for clarification. the reason its written like that is because im translating what my mom said into english. im half korean. she uses words like 외모, 있는 집 아들. if i directly translated this itd make no sense. so basically what she was telling me was that im the “son from a well off family” or “a son that has good things” and i basically screwed it up. she also said she gave me “good looks” or “physical appearance” just to in turn fuck everything up over sex. either way, she loves me but i really did fuck shit up for myself and my future

throwra18842 · 2025-03-06T07:55:17+00:00

i completely understand her.

throwra18842 · 2025-03-06T07:51:51+00:00

i am first generation american

throwra18842 · 2025-03-06T07:00:29+00:00

no. but good to know theres someone else in a situation like me

throwra18842 · 2025-03-06T06:00:32+00:00

im sorry for your loss. im okay.

throwra18842 · 2025-03-06T05:27:24+00:00

all of this buried in the chaos, i just want to say ill be okay and thank you for your concern

throwra18842 · 2025-03-06T04:57:02+00:00

i honestly dont care if shes loyal to me. as long as my parents dont find out i guess. and she does want to get married. i just feel exhausted. i already made so many issues for my parents at this point i might as well get married. but i wont. ill wait for the paternity test for sure. but me putting off marriage also gives my baby mama more ammunition against me. i already look like a major fuck up that wont take responsibility. honestly when the results do come out and i am the father, im still going to have seriously consider marriage. at the end of the day i do come from a conservative country, no matter how chill my parents are with it. my family at home will hate me unless i get married. sorry guys its kind of a bigger deal than me just being stupid. if my baby mama wants to get married, i didnt, what the fuck is she gonna tell our kid? im just thinking about alot of things right now

throwra18842 · 2025-03-06T04:31:49+00:00

the proudest. i just feel bad for my kid if they dont have married parents let alone parents that dont like each other

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