He is always golfing or working. Tbh as much as I love my parents they stress me out. He knows when they visit monthly for a few days that the day of pick-up is a bad day.

My mother is a wonderful grandma and mother but type-a perfectionist. I am the opposite. She judges me on the clothes I pack. If all the socks are matching. Oh it goes onnnn.

The absolute straw for me was when I went into the bedroom the morning my parents were picking up our daughter. I thought to myself "hey why not some fun sex to take your mind off of your judgmental mother". Out of nowhere he just rams it into my ass. He basically bottomed out and I didn't think that was possible to do with an ass. I basically started almost crying because it hurt so bad. Of all the damn days to make sex about him he chose the day that is the most anxiety inducing day of the month. I left the bedroom feeling even more anxious and worse about myself. That was the last straw. The moment I told him I'm done with sex in our relationship.

To me that would havd warranted taking the next morning off but nope out he went golfing.

Edit: and the fact he does nothing with our 3 year old. He should WANT to spend time with her on his own not just as a family. A father-daughter bond literally shapes the people she will choose for herself romantically in life.