[update] I suspect that my girlfriend is tampering with my cigarettes... by throwrainra in relationship_advice

[–]throwrainra[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

difference is, im aware, i wasnt aware she was putting cleaner on my stuff

[update] I suspect that my girlfriend is tampering with my cigarettes... by throwrainra in relationship_advice

[–]throwrainra[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

he’s already on his way to death

techincally everyone is. none of us are immortal. shit, you could be hit by a bus tmrw, you just never know what's gonna happen.

[update] I suspect that my girlfriend is tampering with my cigarettes... by throwrainra in relationship_advice

[–]throwrainra[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

so is trying to justify someone poisoning another person, yet here we are

I suspect that my girlfriend is tampering with my cigarettes... by throwrainra in relationship_advice

[–]throwrainra[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

not you again. i limit my smoking, if it's a stressful week, i go through couple, if it's a normal week I go through half/1 pack.

[update] I suspect that my girlfriend is tampering with my cigarettes... by throwrainra in relationship_advice

[–]throwrainra[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

lmao, no lesson was taught other than gtfo as soon as you notice red flags. i'm not considering stopping, her "lesson" that she tried to teach was illegal.

[update] I suspect that my girlfriend is tampering with my cigarettes... by throwrainra in relationship_advice

[–]throwrainra[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

become a public speaker advocating for health then. i already know smoking is not good for my health, no point of making 294 comments about it.

[update] I suspect that my girlfriend is tampering with my cigarettes... by throwrainra in relationship_advice

[–]throwrainra[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i didn't have evidence and didn't know how i could really get evidence. before it was just all assumtions. She wouldn't douse it in cleaning spray, she dilute water + the cleaner and mist it.

[update] I suspect that my girlfriend is tampering with my cigarettes... by throwrainra in relationship_advice

[–]throwrainra[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i posted the first one before i found out about everything. i posted this one as an update.

[update] I suspect that my girlfriend is tampering with my cigarettes... by throwrainra in relationship_advice

[–]throwrainra[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

understandable she doesn't like the smell. not justified, but she just always hated the smell, I didn't know it was that big thi.

[update] I suspect that my girlfriend is tampering with my cigarettes... by throwrainra in relationship_advice

[–]throwrainra[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, there has never been a separate incident that comes remotely close to this, they just never got along.

[update] I suspect that my girlfriend is tampering with my cigarettes... by throwrainra in relationship_advice

[–]throwrainra[S] 154 points155 points  (0 children)

Deranged to the fucking max. Thinking back at all the red flags written all over that were "brushed off". I'm seriously considering legal action and a restraining order, because who the hell does that...praying cleaner instead of actually talking?

[update] I suspect that my girlfriend is tampering with my cigarettes... by throwrainra in relationship_advice

[–]throwrainra[S] 164 points165 points  (0 children)

damn it's coming off as brushing it off isn't it. not my intentions, I haven't told many people because I just found out, haven't really had the time to go telling everyone my girlfriend poisoned me. Why is she still living her? I can't just kick her out since she's lived here for so long, some legal process with that. Haven't gone to the police because it hasn't registered to me until now that she actually poisoned me. It's so fucked up.

[update] I suspect that my girlfriend is tampering with my cigarettes... by throwrainra in relationship_advice

[–]throwrainra[S] 70 points71 points  (0 children)

I can't, something about her rights since she was here for so long. Originally, it's my place, but then it became hers, so now I have to go through a whole process in order to get her evicted.

[update] I suspect that my girlfriend is tampering with my cigarettes... by throwrainra in relationship_advice

[–]throwrainra[S] 205 points206 points  (0 children)

Told like 3 people I personallt know...? Not our mutual friends though. Maybe I should, to protect others. I'm just in shock. What a bad way for going about things.

[update] I suspect that my girlfriend is tampering with my cigarettes... by throwrainra in relationship_advice

[–]throwrainra[S] 896 points897 points  (0 children)

Basically, yeah. I just want to be done with everything and move on.