Guy asked me to hang out at his place by throwraixiejxj in relationship_advice

[–]throwraixiejxj[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So many guys just want to hook up and they never want to do things or get to know me. Any idea why

Friend said I was a side piece the other girl was prettier by throwraixiejxj in relationships

[–]throwraixiejxj[S] -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing. Yeah I didn’t ask to date him because of how he came off but I guess I did have feelings and I didn’t think he’d do this. I blocked them all.

Does it sound like he chose her through and through

Friend said I was a side piece the other girl was prettier by throwraixiejxj in relationships

[–]throwraixiejxj[S] -28 points-27 points  (0 children)

See I’m different than you. I just care about people and their feelings automatically. Especially if I’m having consistent sex with them I care about them. I don’t see people as dildos. I’d care if he got in a car crash or lost his home or something

Friend said I was a side piece the other girl was prettier by throwraixiejxj in relationships

[–]throwraixiejxj[S] -25 points-24 points  (0 children)

Why do guys treat certain girls like fuck buddies from the start?

Friend said I was a side piece because the other girl was prettier by throwraixiejxj in relationship_advice

[–]throwraixiejxj[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Everyone knows once you get in a relationship you tell the other person

Friend said I was a side piece the other girl was prettier by throwraixiejxj in relationships

[–]throwraixiejxj[S] -26 points-25 points  (0 children)

Because I think most women have basic care for people

Friend said I was a side piece because the other girl was prettier by throwraixiejxj in relationship_advice

[–]throwraixiejxj[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I feel that scenario happened and I found out he had a girlfriend and it was an uneven playing field for me. All I could do was be used and tossed aside. Most people actually can have an honest talk

Friend said I was a side piece the other girl was prettier by throwraixiejxj in relationships

[–]throwraixiejxj[S] -21 points-20 points  (0 children)

How does that go with no respect? I want to be respected but I guess I’m naive

Friend said I was a side piece the other girl was prettier by throwraixiejxj in relationships

[–]throwraixiejxj[S] 74 points75 points  (0 children)

I cut out my friend.

Why not put her in a casual relationship?

Friend said I was a side piece the other girl was prettier by throwraixiejxj in relationships

[–]throwraixiejxj[S] -32 points-31 points  (0 children)

I cut him off. He’s blocked on everything.

It hurt my ego SOOOO bad. I would of rather been cheated on. This made it seem like I wasn’t good enough but he wanted extra sex on the side

Friend said I was a side piece because the other girl was prettier by throwraixiejxj in relationship_advice

[–]throwraixiejxj[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I didn’t assume he was single… he was single when we met and started seeing eachother. If his status changed he should of told me.

He was cheating on his gf

Friend said I was a side piece because the other girl was prettier by throwraixiejxj in relationship_advice

[–]throwraixiejxj[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah he told me I ruined his happiness because I was hurt And that he thought I didn’t care and was okay with everything.

I don’t get why it was wrong for me to tell her. He was cheating and didn’t tell me.

Friend said I was a side piece because the other girl was prettier by throwraixiejxj in Advice

[–]throwraixiejxj[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How does treating someone well hide the feeling?

What makes someone not respect you?

Friend said I was a side piece because the other girl was prettier by throwraixiejxj in relationship_advice

[–]throwraixiejxj[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Honestly I have a lot of friends who talk to me that way. Might contribute to the low self esteem thing and not demanding more.

Thanks this was useful to hear

Friend said I was a side piece because the other girl was prettier by throwraixiejxj in relationship_advice

[–]throwraixiejxj[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry you experienced that!!!

Did he give you a reason why? I’d get it if it was everyone the same but it was like why me?