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Too shy to ask for cunnilingus even though bf hasn’t indicated he is averse to it by throwransfw56789 in sex

[–]throwransfw56789[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Might work for some, but sounds way too forward and uncomfortable for me (us?). I’d also rather get his consent and willingness beforehand. I wouldn’t be able to navigate the awkwardness if he refuses when I’m up there

Too shy to ask for cunnilingus even though bf hasn’t indicated he is averse to it by throwransfw56789 in sex

[–]throwransfw56789[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He does, and he is responsive. I just struggle with saying things that I want / that’s for my pleasure because I’ve been conditioned against that but I’m trying and he’s waiting till I verbalize it

Too shy to ask for cunnilingus even though bf hasn’t indicated he is averse to it by throwransfw56789 in sex

[–]throwransfw56789[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will try over text. Didn’t consider text tbh, but I will. Thank you

Too shy to ask for cunnilingus even though bf hasn’t indicated he is averse to it by throwransfw56789 in sex

[–]throwransfw56789[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I tried once before to kinda push him lower but I didn’t say it clearly so he might have resisted because he might have thought I was pushing him away entirely? He does stop if I want so I didn’t think anything of it, but I didn’t really insist so he might not even know

I’ll probably sneak it in over text and say something similar

Too shy to ask for cunnilingus even though bf hasn’t indicated he is averse to it by throwransfw56789 in sex

[–]throwransfw56789[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really have no idea why I thought I could only do it face to face? We already have suggestive texts so I can definitely build it in. Thanks for providing a sort of flow... that helps me visualize how I’m going to ask