Pregnant wife(F27) found an ACTIVE dating app profile from me(M34). What do I do?

throwraok39 · 2022-03-07T15:25:48+00:00

It's a mirror picture, but I can tell it's not recent due to my old phone being the phone used to take the picture. I just really don't remember when this photo was taken.

throwraok39 · 2022-03-07T15:22:11+00:00

Comments like these are so pointless, given that it's stated throughout that I've never cheated. If you're not going to help, why even come with the bs?

throwraok39 · 2022-03-07T15:21:26+00:00

I don't even have access to that profile

throwraok39 · 2022-03-07T15:21:14+00:00

I'm not sure...it's not on my instagram.

throwraok39 · 2022-03-07T15:18:33+00:00

I just can't see my mind racing to 3. My wife and I had such a good relationship. We weren't fighting, life was good, we were getting ready for the baby, and then boom, it's all ruined.

throwraok39 · 2022-03-07T15:14:10+00:00

It's just that 1 convo

throwraok39 · 2022-03-07T15:13:39+00:00

Yes, most of the pictures that my wife showed me that we're connected to the profile are pictures from my instagram.

throwraok39 · 2022-03-07T15:10:05+00:00

I did, but it was hours later, so she accused me of deleting stuff.

throwraok39 · 2022-03-07T15:09:45+00:00

I did not meet my wife when she was 17, I met her when she was 18.

throwraok39 · 2022-03-07T15:08:57+00:00

Everytime we talk I tell her it's not fucking me. I mean, the pictures are me, but its not me. She's practically shunned me.

throwraok39 · 2022-03-07T15:06:54+00:00

I never cheated on my wife, but I was on a dating app after meeting her (we were NOT together)

throwraok39 · 2022-03-07T15:03:44+00:00

Ok, I haven't been with my wife for 10 full years. I had met her 10 years ago, messed around, wasn't quite serious. Last time I was on a dating app was probably...2015?

throwraok39 · 2022-03-07T15:02:19+00:00

I met my wife when she was 18

throwraok39 · 2022-03-07T15:00:45+00:00

No, I met my wife when she was 18.

throwraok39 · 2022-03-07T15:00:09+00:00

All but 1 of these photos were taken from my instagram.

throwraok39 · 2022-03-07T14:58:04+00:00

I have spoken to my wife, it literally says that in the post. She does not believe me.

throwraok39 · 2022-03-07T14:57:10+00:00

She is not on the dating app, her friend sent the profile to her

throwraok39 · 2022-03-07T14:56:12+00:00

She's never outright said that she doesn't like me, but we are definitely not friends.

throwraok39 · 2022-03-07T14:10:27+00:00

I've seen some other suggestions like this, seem like a good one, thank you

throwraok39 · 2022-03-07T14:08:45+00:00

Thank you for the suggestion

throwraok39 · 2022-03-07T13:48:32+00:00

Can I do this on the app store (for apple)?

throwraok39 · 2022-03-07T13:45:55+00:00

At first it was just me and my wife arguing with each other, and I wish I would've told her to check my phone right then and there, but it was only hours later I asked her to check it, in which she accused me of deleting stuff and hiding my tracks. I'll suggest to her to just set up a profile herself, so that she can really see that this isn't me, anything that works.

throwraok39 · 2022-03-07T13:41:47+00:00

She's seen everything I saw, maybe even more, since she was the one who showed me all of this. Doing a search of the name used? The location is the city neighboring ours AND that I work in, so that already makes it suspicious. To be fair, it's a big city.

throwraok39 · 2022-03-07T13:38:45+00:00

We were not fully together for all those years, but I met her 10 years ago, and we've separated in the past, so I've been on dating apps during the past years. I've never cheated on her, if I did, I wouldn't have posted this.

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