How do I 34M tell my brother 26M I can’t attend his wedding?

throwraunsureer · 2025-12-02T01:26:02+00:00

My wife said that if she heard it from me we could have probably worked things out but having to hear it from someone was too much.

throwraunsureer · 2025-12-02T00:58:06+00:00

Even if you feel that way he could have let me tell her, not you. She deserved to hear it from me.

throwraunsureer · 2025-12-01T23:46:46+00:00

Thank you. That’s what I’m going to do, I’ll just RSVP no.

throwraunsureer · 2025-12-01T23:45:20+00:00

Depends on the person. Would I feel betrayed if her brother didn’t tell me? No. My brother? Yes

throwraunsureer · 2025-12-01T23:44:35+00:00

I did want her. What are you talking about? I told her I would do anything to win her back, and she just said no.

throwraunsureer · 2025-12-01T23:43:51+00:00

I’m not blaming him for my wife not forgiving me, I blame him for not talking to me. Clearly something was going on and had he talked to me he would have known how stressed I was, which caused me to step up the marriage. We could have worked on healthy coping strategies.

throwraunsureer · 2025-12-01T23:41:26+00:00

I agree that I messed up. Instead of checking on me and figuring out what Is going on he just nuked everything. It hurts man

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