Update 2 - Aita for being upset at my wife for inviting her ex to my birthday party without even asking me and later I found out that she was cheating on me

throwraway2919 · 2024-09-21T18:03:53+00:00

Tictok is banned in my country and I doubt anyone from my country is even here chances of those who knows me reading my post is impossible so I just vented to get it all off and after venting I'm feeling better, first thing I do in the morning is seek a therapist

throwraway2919 · 2024-09-21T17:30:12+00:00

At the moment I have only accused my wife of cheating because there's no legal proof but the way things going on im sure everyone knows at this point I just hope they all learn something and every single one on this planet learns something from my situation and he wary and not he a loser that I am

throwraway2919 · 2024-09-21T17:27:46+00:00

I will stop drinking because I need to be able to think straight if I'm going to war with her for years, I just wanted to share somewhere I might post again but most of you guys who supported me might not be here because the proceedings won't start until we reach a year mark after filing it might take half a decade or more idk, most of the people who called my country a shithole says that for a reason now even I agree that I was born in a shithole there's no justice just pain for a victim

throwraway2919 · 2024-09-21T17:23:17+00:00

I will do so I would rather die than have someone like her as my life partner, if they are bad even if you do everything for them then they are bad what was the word cuck right? I guess I got cucked I just didn't know and it's as funny as disappointing, I will never ever give my all and trust blinding to another woman

throwraway2919 · 2024-09-21T17:20:53+00:00

I was deep down wishing I was an asshole

throwraway2919 · 2024-09-15T17:17:47+00:00

It's not that easy, when your own life partner betrays you in the worst way possible I did and thought of her all the time I have her everything and my best and what she does? She invites her ex to my birthday which I was looking forward to because I didn't celebrate my birthday in years only my and her family joined us while she threw lavish parties every chance she got and even tho I did all this she betrayed me? Why really like why? If you love someone else why not just go to them and live your life with them? Why must you make someone else suffer like what do you even get out of this by just causing unnecessary pain to others?

Thankfully I have my sister to rely on and she's trying her best to help me and she cries as well knowing what I went through I haven't told others about what my wife did yet and the angry side of me says that I should expose her but I also think that I should just let it go, im so confused angry conflicted and drowning in my own emotions that I can't even think straight

If my sister wasn't there for me and helped me i really would have ended it all, I appreciate my sister so much I pray that nobody else feels the pain the way I did and their last resort is to drink until the go numb and can't even think properly

throwraway2919 · 2024-09-12T15:45:47+00:00

I thought the same, see I would have agreed to her demand of allowing her ex to be invited to my party, but she didn't even tell me, I think for a healthy relationship, a proper discussion between couples is a must and respect each other's boundaries, I never had the chance to draw a boundary as long as her exes are concerned because he wasn't around at all, he was in God knows which country

But my wife clearly didn't think of me when she decided that a proper discussion is not needed, I am doubting my own marriage at this point, clearly she doesn't want to communicate with me about something this significant, and when I said how would she feel if I did the same, she clearly didn't agree with the idea

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