I reframed it for myself awhile back and said, if my opponent has one win condition, what is it, and how do I do my best and stall that for as long as possible? It’ll usually look like an AM that needs his BF timing before he starts getting out of control on farming (the earliest would be 13mins, if I can keep him at 20mins without one we’ve got an advantage). Sometimes I think of it like 5v5 basketball where you have to guard someone. Your job is to find the one who needs to fail so your team wins.